Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how to plan the perfect Valentine's Day for your sweetheart! Got a question? Write me at

Wanna win back your ex? After years of guys requesting info from me on how to do this, I have finally released an e-Book - "10 Steps to Win Back Your Ex" - that gives you every single strategy you'll need to get her back in your life for good! And so, on today's show, we're giving you a few tips to help start you on the right path towards ex reconciliation, including: A key secret to winning her back that most guys aren't able to do (but YOU should) 3 Rookie mistakes all guys make after she breaks up with them The emotional triggers you need to hit so she'll do a mind re-set about her feelings for you Ready to check out the e-Book? Go to and get your copy today!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about a brand new e-Book from me that's coming out on February 1st called "7 Steps to Winning Back Your Ex!" It's my new step-by-step guide to re-connecting with an ex, regardless of if she broke up with you or your broke up with her! We then talk about a situation many guys face, where a woman that once showed interest starts doing things like communicating less or flaking on dates. When these things happen, should a man call her out on it? Why is she doing these things in the first place? Are they tests? Does she really like you anymore? Or, is there something else going on, and how can you combat it? Got a question for Harry? Write today!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the concept of "time," time management, and how to use your time more wisely when it comes to your dating life. Specifically, we discuss a few things: How bad dating habits and mistakes prolongs your chances at being able to get the women you truly want - and how to fix them A few examples of people who didn't value who they were or have a focus about the kind of people they wanted to date - and the tragedies that occurred as a result The 3 Things you need to need to know about yourself to date most effectively Why you need to date with purpose and intent, and examples of how to do it Got a question for me? Write to harry@stoplosingwomen.com!

Happy New Year! It's 2016, and there are lots of exciting changes coming to the Stop Losing Women website and podcast! We discuss a few of those things in this podcast, including: - The new show schedule - What's being created as we come into the new year - When I'll be holding webinars - And much more! As for today's show, I read a message from a guy who has been helped significantly by listening to my various eBooks and podcasts! I also read a message from a guy who's girlfriend of 6.5. months broke up with him by saying she just didn't love him. He wants to know if he should give her a few months of no contact to increase her interest and hit her up again, and I give him the straight up, no-filtered advice you've come to love hearing from me! By the way, if you've got a question for me, you can write to me at Be sure to register for this week's upcoming webinar at

It's episode 300!! Woo-hoo!! In today's episode, we talk about the future of this show, and how you can show your support by way of my newly set up Patreon page! We also answer a message from a guy who recently went on a first date, and had the girl ask him to kiss her at the end of it! Why did she do this? What does this mean? Should he be worried? Support this show - go to and make a contribution (and a FREE gift as well)! Got a question? Write me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a wide variety of questions from various guys going through different situations. In the first question, a guy learned his girlfriend kissed her ex, and he wants to know if he should forgive her and take her back, or be broken up with her for good. In the second question, a guy sets up a 3rd date with a woman, yet she cancels 24 hours before the date due to a cold. The guy is now wondering (a) if it was an excuse, or (b) if it was genuine, and (c) if she should stop trying to see her altogether. In the third question, a guy has a situation with his girlfriend where she wants him to come see her everyday (even after spending all day at school and an hour on the train to get home). He's having a hard time figuring out how to be able to let her know that he sometimes wants to stay home instead of coming to visit her, but is afraid he'll hurt her feelings. Got a question you'd like to ask me? Write me at harry@stoplosingwomen.com!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about Charlie Sheen's recent announcement about his HIV status. As sad as it is to hear, it wasn't all that surprising given his lifestyle choices. And yet, there are men who are wanting to follow a similar lifestyle, one that is promoted time and time again by various Pick-up Artists and dating gurus, and aren't being mindful of the TRUE health hazards that can arise from it. So, we go over that in today's podcast! GET THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP program, available at until Sunday, November 22 at 11:59 PM PST! Got a question? Write to me at

In part 12 of our 12 part series "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep," we talk about why women actually WILL date a man that "plays games." What does she mean when she says she won't? Why do they fall for these type of game-playing guys again and again? The answer isn't as obvious as you think it is... more importantly, though, we show YOU what it is about these guys that she's ACTUALLY falling for, and how you can play the right kind of "games" to score a date with her! THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP program is now available, but only until Sunday, November 22 at 11:59 PM PST! Go to to see what the program has to offer! Got a question? Write to me at

In part 11 of the 12 part series "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep," we discuss what the odds are of your dating situation being "the exception to the rule," i.e. one where, since you feel your chemistry with this person is different than others you've been with, you feel moving things a bit faster or not going by standard dating principles will still allow you to have a successful relationship. There are stories out there of people who only dated for a couple months before tying the not and "lived happily ever after..." but what are the odds of YOU being in that kind of relationship? And how much greater are your odds for a happy relationship if you actually date for a while before becoming the boyfriend/fiance/husband? Only one way to find out... so take a listen! THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP online course is only 2 days away! Sunday, November 15 at 4 PM PST is the date! Go to the website now to sign up for the webinar AND be informed for when the program launches! Got a question? Write to me at

In part 10 of the 12 part series "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep," we talk about facing failure in the dating game, and whether or not it's important to your dating success! How can you become less fearful of getting rejected from women? Is it better to run towards rejection and seek it instead of trying to avoid and hide from it? What positive effects can hearing "no" from women have on your dating future, and how does it help you to actually build confidence and the "I don't care" attitude that women love? We discuss all this and MORE! THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP comes out on Sunday, November 15 at 4 PM PST/7PM EST, with a webinar starting an hour before! Go to for more details! Got a question? Write me at

In part 9 of our 12 part series "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep," we have special treat for you! This is one of the BONUS extras from "The Girlfriend Roadmap" program: an interview with Ancilla, who gives us her real take on how she feels about men who she knows have crushes on her... but don't have the guts to actually ask her out! How do women feel about that? Do they actually WANT these guys to make a move? And - more importantly - why won't the woman make the move even IF she'd be willing to go on a date with you?? These are some POWERFUL insights, and just a small sampling of what "The Girlfriend Roadmap" program has to offer! THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP online video course drops on Sunday, November 15 at 4 PM PST (7 PM EST)! Go to to sign up for notices about the program launch! We are holding a google hangout at the website at 3 PM PST (6 PM EST) an hour before the launch! Got a question? Write me at

In part 8 of the 12 part series "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep," we talk about a controversial topic: the idea that it's actually acceptable to date multiple women at one time! Why should you do it? How will the women you're dating feel about it? And, more importantly, what is the purpose behind dating more than one girl when you already know the one you want? We talk about this and more in this podcast! THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP drops on Sunday, November 15! Sign up for updates at FREE download of my best-selling eBook, "The Friend Zone Escape Plan," until November 15 at Got a question? Write to me at !

In part 7 of the 12 part series "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep," we answer a listener's question on our "ASK HARRY" show! He has a girlfriend that's been using extra sarcasm lately, and can't tell that he's bothered by it. He wants to know how he should approach the topic with her in a way where she won't be offended or mad, but gets his point across at the same time! THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP online video course comes out on Sunday, November 15 at 4 PM PST (7 PM EST)! Go to to sign up and get notices about the launch! FREE download of my best-selling eBook, "The Friend Zone Escape Plan, at (Offer expires Sunday, November 15) Got a question? Write me at

In part 6 of the 12 part series, "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep," we discuss 4 ways to be her mystery man! As you know, women LOVE guys who are a "challenge" and have a bit of mystery about them. How can you pull this off without feeling like you're being dishonest? We give you 4 things you can start doing that will make women asks the RIGHT kinds of questions about you, increase her interest, and keep her around longer while she tries to "figure you out!" THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP comes out on Sunday, November 15 at 4 PM PST (7 PM EST)! Sign up for updates at FREE download of my best-selling eBook, "The Friend Zone Escape Plan" (free until November 15) at Got questions? Write me at

In part 5 of the 12 part series "THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP Prep," we talk about rapport-building with a woman! How much of it is necessary to have with a woman BEFORE you ask her out? Should you do it over a few days? Weeks? Months? How can you tell when she's comfortable enough with you to go on a date and get the least chance of rejection possible when asking her out? The answers to these questions may actually SURPRISE you! "The Girlfriend Roadmap" course drops on Sunday, November 15 at 4 PM PST (7 PM EST)! Sign up for notices at FREE download of "The Friend Zone Escape Plan" available until November 15 at Got a question? Write me at

In part 4 of our 12 part series, "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep," we talk about the REAL reason women reject you when they feel you're just hitting on them because of how hot they look! Do women want you to find them attractive? Absolutely! BUT, there are subconscious reasons she can't just have you want her for her body - and, once you know this reason, you'll be able to come up with better ways to show you admiration for her without harping all over her looks! THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP online video course will be available Sunday, November 15 at 4 PM Pacific Standard Time (7 PM Eastern Standard Time) at (only for 7 days tho)! Got a question? Write to me at

In part 3 of our 12 part series "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep", I talk to you guys about an interesting conversation I had yesterday while doing background work on the set of a commercial for a dating site! One of the female extras started talking about her experience doing online dating, and the topic came up about dating guys who have a LOT of money. Her opinions on dating men who seem to have the highest of finances were quite revealing, and mirrored those of other women I've talked to. Listen to what they're TRUE feelings are about dating these kinds of men, and why you may or may not have an advantage against them! "The Girlfriend Roadmap" online video course drops on Sunday, November 15 at 4 PM PST (7 PM EST)! Make sure to stop by and sign up for notices about the program launching! Got a question? Write to me at

In part 2 of the 12 part series "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep," we talk about maximizing your exposure! As you know, in order for you to get a girlfriend - or even a date - women first have to know that you exist! We talk about various ways you can start thinking about where to meet women, as well as your method for greeting them and how to start becoming comfortable with approaching them! "The Girlfriend Roadmap" program comes out on Sunday, November 15! A FREE webinar will be held before its launch at 3PM PST - sign up for notices at FREE eBook download of "The Friend Zone Escape Plan" at Got a question? Write me at  

In part 1 of the 12 part series "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep," we answer a listener's question on how to get a girl you've been messaging on Facebook to agree to a date! What do you do when she's giving you objections? What if she tells you she feels unsafe meeting up because "you're a stranger?" How do you get her to be comfortable enough to meet you in person? Or, is her claim just an excuse given due to low interest? This series of podcast is meant to prepare you for the launch of my NEW online video course, "The Girlfriend Roadmap," available at on Sunday, November 15! In the meantime... FREE e-Book download, "The Friend Zone Escape Plan," available at Got a question? Write me at