Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the importance of finding the time to better your dating life! As you get older, you will start to have more and more distractions in your life - job, various pursuits, hobbies, spending time with friends, etc. - and it can become very easy to place "improve your dating game" on the back-burner for a variety of reasons (ranging from personal to excuses, etc.). We talk about how you can bypass these reasons and figure out ways to include dating improvement into your everyday life! GET READY! "The Girlfriend Roadmap" online video program will be launching on November 15! In the meantime, download a FREE copy of "The Friend Zone Escape Plan" (free until November 15) at Social Media connects:

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about what you need to do when pursuing a girl you think might think is "not her type." We discuss the mindset you need to have when going after her, how much stock you should put in other people's assessment of your chances with her, and the reason women will SAY they want certain things in a man, yet end up dating someone with NONE of those qualities! FREE download of "The Friend Zone Escape Plan" e-Book (until November 15) at Got a question? Write me at Connect with us on social media:

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the two words you can say to the woman you're dating that can have a MAJOR impact on the way she feels about you - even if you've been with her for months or YEARS! FREE e-Book download, "The Friend Zone Escape Plan" at (only until November 15!) Got a question? Write me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of love... but why it's not the ONLY thing you need to make a relationship work! There are 2 other components that are just as important. What are they? How do they help to make a relationship last long term? Listen to the show to find out! FREE download of my eBook for men, "The Friend Zone Escape Plan," at until November 15! Got a question? Write to me at  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how you should respond when a girl you're interested in/dating/in a relationship with asks you to borrow money! What should you say to her? Do you lend her the money? Does your response vary depending on where you are in the relationship? Find out by listening to the show! FREE download of "The Friend Zone Escape Plan" e-Book (for a limited time only) at Got a question for Harry? Write me at Like us on ! Follow on Twitter and Periscope! Check out the videos on

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the one important item you should be carrying on you at all times. Whether it's a first date, or you've been in a relationship for a while, or even if you're married, you always, ALWAYS want to have this one thing on you. Why? 'Cause you never know what opportunities the girl is going to allow you to take part of, and if you're unprepared, it could mean missing out on something that may end up being a one-time offer... FREE eBook, "The Friend Zone Escape Plan," available for download - get your copy toay at Got a question? !

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about a situation many guys have faced: when they present a date idea to a woman, and she rejects it! What should you do? Do you ask her for a date suggestion, or should you not take her out at all? The answer, it turns out, depends on the situation AND the girl's personality... all of which is discussed in the podcast! MARK YOUR CALENDAR for Sunday, November 15 - that's when the NEW program, "The Girlfriend Roadmap," will be coming out! Find out more at FREE e-BOOK DOWNLOAD at the website - "The Friend Zone Escape Plan!"  

FREE Download of the Friend Zone Escape Plan e-Book at - LIMITED time only! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about an issue that bugs most men: when they are in the mood to have sex, and their woman denies them! What does it mean? Why does it effect us and our emotions so much? Is there anything we can (or should) do about it? And what does it mean for the relationship? We go into all this and more! Got a question for me? Email me at  

FREE WEBINAR TRAINING on Sunday, October 25! Register Now at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss "Big Ticket Item" dates, i.e. those dates that either cost a lot of money or involve spending a lot of time with your date over a period of days. Many guys want to do these kinds of dates early on with a woman they've just started dating - but, is that really a good idea? Will it make her like you more or less by spending more time/money on/with her? We dive into this topic and give you the REAL thoughts on a woman's mind when you do these kinds of dates so early in the dating process! Got a question for Harry? Write me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we're diving into part 2 of the 2-part series, "What Club Bottle Service Taught Me About Dating!" In part 1, we talked about how my misconceived notions about the "bottle service experience" mirrors that of guys who aren't willing to date different types of women or go after the ones they want. In part 2, we explore another aspect of bottle service I found interesting: how it positions you to LOOK and stand OUT - another thing that's very important when attracting women! Got a question for me? Email me at

Aaaaaand we're back! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we're starting a 2-part series entitled "What Club Bottle Service Taught Me About Dating!" I was in Las Vegas this past weekend for a friend's birthday, and her desire to want bottle service (and my disdain for having to pay so much just to drink in a club) ended up teaching me a few lessons that correlate with dating. So, I'm going to share them with you!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we start a new segment called "Harry Answers Random Questions," where I give short answers to questions sent in my listeners! Today's questions are: 1. At what stage should I start giving a girl gifts?   2. Is it a good idea to surprise girl from the start (for instance by leaving a hand-made smoothie with a label "have a nice day" in front of her house in the morning so that she has a nicer day at work).   3. If a girl says "we should hang out next week again" at the end of the date, should I say "Ok, let me know when you want to do it exactly" or rather something like "OK", and then invite her for a specific date a few days later?   4. Should you respond to a text that a girl sends you immediately after the date, saying something like "Thanks for such a great meeting!"  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast... aw, heck, you guys: I'm an Uncle now! My brother had a kid, and it is AWESOME!! In doing so, though, it reminded me to remind you guys what the purpose is of trying to get into a relationship in the first place... and so, that's what's being discussed on the show today! LIKE on Facebook @ stoplosingwomen Follow on Twitter and Periscope @ stoplosingwomen

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about a question posed by one of my girl friends on Facebook: when a guy gives a girl his number, how long should she wait to call him? Should it be right away? Should she wait a few days before hitting him up? Or, should he be the one giving up his number in the first place? We discuss this topic, and how men have been brainwashed to believe in doing certain things in dating by the media! LIKE US ON FACEBOOK @ Facebook.com/StopLosingWomen Follow on Twitter and Periscope @stoplosingwomen

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's our final show in our week long "ASK HARRY" marathon, where we answer listener's questions on air! Today, we have a first: a message from a guy I coached who has been using my methods... and NOT getting the results he wants! He now wants to know why it is the things I've been advising him to do have not been working - is it him? Is it the advice? Is there something he's not getting? We dive into his questions and answer them all on today's show! Like me on ! Follow me on !

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's another installment of ASK HARRY, where I answer a listener's question! I answer a message from a guy who wants to know how he can pull off breaking up with a girl yet still remaining friends with her! Can it be done? Is it worth trying to pull off, or is it better to just let her go? Would she ever be able to be around him without wanting him back? All these questions and more are answered in this podcast! Like us on Facebook at http://www.Facebook.com/StopLosingWomen Now on Periscope at stoplosingwomen! Twitter: @stoplosingwomen!

Like us on Facebook at http://www.Facebook.com/StopLosingWomen! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's ASK HARRY time, where we answer a listener's question! Today's question comes from a guy who likes a girl he met through a mutual friend. They've known of each other for 3 years but haven't hung out much. Now, he wants to get her number and ask her out but is afraid asking her for the number might scare her off. How should he proceed with this girl? We answer that question and more on today's show!

2 Years!! That's how long this podcast has been on the air, and I couldn't be happier to have been able to help so many guys out in that time! You guys have really helped make this show what it is, and I am very grateful! Today, we're going to look back at some of the testimonials that have been sent in to me from guys whose dating lives have been transformed as a result of listening to the podcast, buying the eBooks or signing up for one-on-one coaching! We also go into some of the upcoming things that will be happening on the site to help you guys out even further with your dating lives! Everything from online programs, new eBooks, and more are on the horizon!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss the SECRET to ending up in a long-term relationship with your high school sweetheart, even if you end up going to different schools in different states! Specifically, we discuss: The importance of letting go How years-long separation from her can actually give you a better chance at marrying her later on The reason holding on to her in a "long distance relationship" situation can doom your relationship or friendship ...and much more!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how removing one simple word from your vocabulary when having an argument with your mate can significantly increase your chances of the fight having a better outcome! Specifically, we talk about: Why this one word can cause her to feel like you're attacking her, even if you're not trying to Sentence structure: how you can phrase your sentences in a way that will get your point across better AND make her willing to look at things your way by simply removing this one word The discussion you need to have with her about future arguments where she also removes this word so you won't feel like she's attacking you ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !