Stop Losing Women Podcast

It's the 3rd year anniversary of the Stop Losing Women website and podcast! And to celebrate, I've got quite a few awesome things to announce in today's show, including: The brand new website designsa A special new club I've decided to start An upcoming webinar with a friend of the show that's designed to boost your success with women in a major way! Since the first show premiered on September 1, 2013, I've been able to help thousands of guys re-imagine the way they think about dating, and the hundreds of "Harry, you changed my life" messages only makes me want to continue helping you guys out! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how to take control of your reactions to the various situations that may arise when dating women! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I answer a question from a WOMAN, who wants to know why it is men are so afraid to approach her. I give an in-depth wake-up reminder to you guys about the importance of being able to approach women. Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a guy's response to my materials in reference to whether or not my advice would work on women aged 40 and up! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how you should respond to a girl who's communication is hot one minute, then cold the next! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Get "The Girlfriend Roadmap" program today, available at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how a guy can remove the fear of asking women out on dates, and how you should address your attraction for her (to tell her or not to tell her - THAT is the question)! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Ready to get your dating life on the right track? Check out "The Girlfriend Roadmap" -

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a listener's question about how he should sign a "friendship card" he bought for a girl for their 4th date... Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Get "The Girlfriend Roadmap" program today -

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about what you need to do when your process of trying to attract women and get a girlfriend just aren't working... Got a question for Harry? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, Myke Macapinlac is back! He's giving up the 7 steps to building up your social confidence - plus, he gives details about his upcoming Social Man Summit, a week-long online video event with 25+ relationship experts (me included) giving out dating information for FREE! (Learn more & register for the summit for FREE by clicking !) Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

It's Mother's Day! And on today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the influence your Mom - i.e. the first woman you're in contact with during your formative years - has on your dating choices subconsciously! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast... we talk about the finality of time, and how wasting time on women who don't like you, or dating women you like but not treating them right, is a bad idea in the long run. Dedicated to the memory of my uncle, who passed away last night, and whose marriage was a definite example of how a woman's love for her man should be. Got a question for Harry? Write me at .

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss what lessons can be learned from watching Beyonce' air her and husband Jay-Z's dirty laundry in public form. We discuss why people do this, what other people actually think about you and your mate when you do this, and why it should be avoided at all cost! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about a big mistake guys make when starting to date a woman - i.e. assuming her positive actions on previous dates are indicative of how they'll respond to him in the future! We tackle the reasons behind WHY a girl that shows you positive signals on a few dates may not yet be ready to claim you as the "boyfriend" - and what to do when they start giving you signs of low interest! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we're talking about sex! Specifically, we discuss this phenomenon of women who are willing to have sex with you after a few dates, yet aren't ready to commit. Why do they feel this way? What is the truth about women getting physical vs. wanting a relationship? And how can you prevent yourself from feeling the need to rush into a relationship with a woman you just hooked up with? We discuss this and more! Got a question for Harry? Write me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we're talking about a recent audio snippet of actress Olivia Wilde gushing over her fiance Jason Sudeikis and how he won her over! Upon hearing her talk about the methods he used, it became clear to me that what he was doing were some pretty advanced PUA (pick up artist) moves! We take a listen to the audio snippet and break down 3 key things Jason did that you can implement into your own dating game! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we have an interview with Myke Macapinlac, founder of TheSocialManProject.com and a former member of the Pick Up Artist community! Myke is here to graciously share some of his insights with us about how to become the kind of man women would want to date. He also goes into depth about what is means to be an "Alpha" male, why he decided to re-define the terms, and the 4 specific traits all men should have in order to transform his own life into one that women find attractive! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Want more information from Myke? Visit his website at  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about women who flake, and the guys that fall for their excuses! This program has had a few discussions about the low amount of interest a woman has in a guy she's flaking on, yet men will still buy into the excuses he's being given. So, on today's show, I give examples from my own dating life of women I dated who were busy, had a lot on their plate... yet still managed to find the time to date me AND show up for these dates on time (and never, ever cancel last minute for any reason)! Got a question for Harry? Write me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we analyze a situation where a guy started dating a woman who was highly interested, but ended up losing interest in him after 2.5 dates. What did he do wrong? Where did her interest start to turn? What should he have done to keep her from ignoring his calls?? Got a question for Harry? Write me at harry@stoplosingwomen.com!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss ways to avoid becoming the guy a girl treats "like" a boyfriend in between relationships, i.e. the "Placeholder Boyfriend," and what to do to have a shot at dating her instead! We also go over the brand new FREE special report available exclusively at the website - the top 5 resources any man can use to turn his dating life around! Got a question? Write me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss 5 areas of conversation you want to avoid if you want to keep the peace in your relationship! Oh sure, she may SAAAAAY "you can tell me anything..." BUT, if you bring up any of these 5 subjects, you are bound to have her mad at your... or WORSE. Got a question for Harry? Write to me at