Sinopsis
Harry Wilmington, creator of www.StopLosingWomen.com and author of "NO GIRLS 4 U: The Ultimate Guide to LOSING the Girl of Your Dreams," reveals all of his relationship and dating strategies, resources and killer tips and tricks in this podcast to help men get ahead of the curve in their romantic life. Discover the psychological reasons why "traditional" methods of attraction actually cause you to LOSE women, and learn the REAL methods you can use to build self confidence, attract the women you desire, and keep them around for the long haul. With Harry's guidance, you'll learn how to get dates any day of the week, with the girls YOU choose, using simple strategies you can start using right away! Sex, love, dating, relationships, break ups, seduction, nice guys vs. bad boys, online dating, and avoiding the dreaded "friend zone" are just some of the topics discussed in this podcast.
Episodios
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#343: How to Help Her Grieve When Tragedies Happen
19/01/2017 Duración: 13minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss the best way for you to be there for your woman when a tragedy occurs in her life, whether it's a close death, loss of job, or other emotional traumas. Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Sign up for a FREE 3-part video date training series:
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#342: How to Prepare BEFORE Dating Disasters Strike
13/01/2017 Duración: 12minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how you can prepare yourself to deal with any inevitable dating disaster that may arise... BEFORE it actually happens in your life! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at
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#341: Stop Playing the Victim Role in Your Dating Life
10/01/2017 Duración: 15minHappy New Year! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how to not get caught up playing the "victim role" in your dating life, and how you can start shifting your mind and behaviors to be a more effective dater! Got a relationship question for Harry? Write to me at Also, stop by the website to check out our new 3-part videos series on becoming irresistible to women:
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#0340: DATE ANALYSIS - "Is there ANY Hope For Her to Change Her Feelings?"
29/12/2016 Duración: 35minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we analyze a situation with a guy who went out with a girl on a couple of dates, then received a "I'm no longer interested" text from her. What went wrong? What went right? What should he do and not do in the future? Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Check out the ebooks at
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#0339: Imagine Having THIS Kind of Relationship (Visualization Exercise)
26/12/2016 Duración: 14minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we help you visualize the kind of woman you've always wanted to date by asking you questions and getting to you imagine positive scenarios about what could be your relationship life! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Also: Learn how to change your mindset, what negative habits are holding back your dating life, and behaviors to add to your routine so women will find you desirable!
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0338: INTERVIEW - How Women REALLY Feel When You Ask For Their Input with Brandyn
23/12/2016 Duración: 17minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we interview a woman named Brandyn who gives you guys the scoop on how women REALLY feel when they ask you for your opinion or input on something, and your response is the classic "Whatever makes you happy" or "Whatever you wanna do" response. Do women want to be included on every decision you make, or do they feel another way about it? New ebooks available at the website - Got a question for Harry? Write to me at
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#0337: 3 Tips for Texting Her Like a BOSS!
20/12/2016 Duración: 15minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss 3 crucial tips for texting women like a BOSS!! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at NEW e-Book now available: Texting Like a BOSS! 21 Text Messaging Commandments for Attracting Women with your Phone! for more info!
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2 New e-Books on Attraction & Texting Women Now Available!
19/12/2016 Duración: 02minHey guys! Just in time for the holidays, there are 2 new e-Books available at The first book, "Natural Attraction: The Ultimate How-to Guide for Men," is based on an interview I did with a 3 percenter, i.e. a guy who is just naturally able to attract women effortlessly. We break down what it is he does to get women, and how any guy can use key tactics to do the same! The second book, "Text Messaging Like a BOSS!" spells out 21 texting commandments to follow in order to properly use the phone to attract women! Both of these books are great, and can be found at the website and on Amazon.com! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at
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#0336: I'm Engaged! + What This Means for YOU
07/12/2016 Duración: 08minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast... aw heck, y'all - I'm engaged! That's right - I've finally decided to settle down and ask my girlfriend to marry me! We discuss why I decided to do it, and - most importantly - what this means for YOU and the future of the "Stop Losing Women" agenda... Got a question for Harry? Write to me at
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#0335: What Donald Trump's Campaign Strategy Can Teach You About Dating
09/11/2016 Duración: 13minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about 3 things you can learn from Donald Trump's strategy to become president that you can use in your dating life to attract women. Many people thought his Presidency wasn't possible - myself included. And yet, if you look back on his campaign, you can see some of the things he did to (a) make himself stand out from the rest of his party, (b) define himself and remain that way despite criticism, and (c) make himself be the guy that gives off more feel-good fun vibes. These same things can be used when trying to attract women - and in today's podcast, we discuss how to do it and why it works so effectively! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at
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#0334: Holiday Dating Survival Guide + Special FREE e-Book!
07/11/2016 Duración: 08minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we help you single guys out during the holidays by giving you a FREE guide on how to date this time of year despite her probably busy schedule! We also tell you about a FREE download at the website you can use as a guide to remind you of what to do and not do to secure her interest well into the new year! Got a relationship question for Harry? Write to me at
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#0333: Apologizing Without Losing Your Alpha
02/11/2016 Duración: 14minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the act of apologizing. How can you do it in a way where you don't lose your alpha status? Should a guy ever apologize at all, and risk looking weak, or is there a way to do it where she'll still respect your position? Got a question for Harry? Write to me at
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"Decoding Your Man" Podcast: My New Show for Women!
29/10/2016 Duración: 01minFor a few years now, I've had female listeners of "The Stop Losing Women Podcast" ask me when I was going to put together a show giving advice to women. Up to this point, I hadn't planned on making such a show. To be honest, I only like to give advice on things I'm good at. When I was bad at dating, I gave advice on what NOT to do as a dater. Once I got good at dating, I started giving advice on how men could get women. Trying to give advice to women, however, seemed like a bit of a challenge. I'm not a woman, so me advising women on what they need to do to attract me or any other guy seemed kinda odd. After having several women write to me, though, I realized a similarity in their message: all of them wanted to know what it is that made men tick. Why did we think the way we did? How did we view relationships? Why do we do things that don't seem to make any sense to them? And so, since I am a man, and am therefore an expert in the "why" behind the things we as men do, I figured it would be good to start a pod
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#332: GROW A PAIR - When to Walk Out On Your Date
27/10/2016 Duración: 15minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how much disrespect you should take before deciding to straight up walk out on your date. It's one of those power moves that separates the men from the boys, and if you haven't done it before, it's time to grow a pair! Learn why doing this move can be the ultimate way to command respect from women you date in the future! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at
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#331: How WIll She View You if You Don't Drink?
24/10/2016 Duración: 16minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who is concerned he won't be able to attract women because he doesn't like drinking alcohol. Why is this such a big concern, and how can you control the agenda with a woman so that you not drinking isn't such a big deal? Got a question for Harry? Write to me at
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#330: Consequences of Rushing the Dating Process
21/10/2016 Duración: 26minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we read a message from a guy who can't figure out why this girl he started dating has stopped going out with him. This is another examination of what happens when a guy tries to rush through the dating process with a woman - listen, learn, and do your best to avoid these mistakes! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at
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#329: 10 Kick-Ass Secrets to Winning Online Dating!
28/09/2016 Duración: 19minHi there! So, on today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we are talking about online dating! Specifically, I'm going to give you 10 of the best possible tips you could ever use to take your online dating life to the next of next levels! These tips are based on the actions I personally used during my time as an online dater to score dates with the hottest of the hottest, the smartest of the smartest, and the singlest of the singles! If you like what you hear in this show and want more online dating tips, guess what? My program, "The Art of Dating Online" is now on the site and ready for you to download! This is the program that will guide you step-by-step in all things online-dating related, including how to set up your profile; the kinds of pictures to use; the right kinds of message to send that will have women dying to correspond with you; and the patented blueprint of how to successfully ask out any girl online so that she says YES! Go to for more info about the program, and get your copy today!
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#328: How Your Insecurities Can Ruin a Sure Thing (A True Story)
23/09/2016 Duración: 22minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I tell you guys a true story I witnessed this weekend where a guy taking a girl home from a party had it all set up to hook up with her... only to ruin it on the ride home! We go over what this guy said and did to make the girl uncomfortable and change her mind mid-ride about spending the night with him! Use this show as an example of what NOT to do or say once the girl has agreed to do stuff with you! Also, pre-order your copy of "The Art of Dating Online" program, available Monday, September 26! go to for more information! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at
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#327: Example of BAD DATING ADVICE on Bringing Up Exclusivity
19/09/2016 Duración: 19minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we go over an example of BAD dating advice! It's given by a well-known dating guru - a woman who gives introverted men advice - and while most of her advice on her website has proven to be helpful, there are still a few things she advises that can actually be detrimental to your dating life! In particular, we talk about her article mentioning when to bring up the "exclusivity" talk with a woman. Listen in as we talk about why her take on this subject is the WORST thing you can follow, along with when (and who) should actually bring up this subject first! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Want some coaching? Go to for more info! Support this program by donating via Patreon:
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#326: "Do her quick end-of-date hugs signal low interest?"
09/09/2016 Duración: 22minOn today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who is having trouble figuring out where a girl's interest in him stands, due in part to the quick end-of-date hugs she gives (where she turns her head away and rushes off afterwards)! We also breakdown other parts of this guy's dating process and why he's in BIG need of an overhaul! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at or go to to sign up for a one-on-one session with me today!