Stop Losing Women Podcast

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we read an excerpt from my eBook "The Friend Zone Escape Plan," which can help YOU figure out a strategy for dating that female friend you've always secretly wanted to date!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we read an excerpt from my eBook "Texting Like a Boss! 21 Text Messaging Commandments for Attracting Women with Your Phone!" You'll learn the answer to the question: can you build rapport with a woman simply by using text messaging?

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we read an excerpt from my eBook "10 Steps to Winning Back Your Ex" about how to respond to an ex when she sends you a text message if you want to win her back!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a college guy who's been trying to plan multiple dates with a girl that keeps canceling last minute. After not talking to him for a month, she reached out to him via text, only to continue being distant after he responded back. He wants to know why it is she would show interest yet constantly flake on him - and I have the answer!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at It's the 400th episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast!  On today's show, I give insights about dating that I got while talking to a KID today at an amusement park. As he rambled on about his new girlfriend, I couldn't help but realize just how important it is to have a child-like look at relationships from time to time (in a mature way, of course) I also answer the question I'm sure many men have: how long does a man need to study about relationships before he finally gets good at dating? The answer may SHOCK you...

Check out Kyle Ingham's awesome website,   See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we interview Kyle Ingham, creator of the website The Distilled Man! Kyle gives us some great insights into the importance of small talk and how to use it effectively to create attraction from women!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about whether or not it's necessary to see a woman all the time in order to build and/or keep her interest, using my own parents' love story as an example.

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we interview Marcus Awakuni, founder of AGL Lifestyles.com and a member of the Real Social Dynamics team, which helps men become more comfortable in their interactions with women. We talk about some of his earlier dating struggles, his dealings with social anxiety, and what men need to do in order to become their best selves so they can be more attractive to women!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at   Soooo I didn't really want to talk about the sexual harassment situation with Aziz Ansari... but it's a dating show, and the situation happened with him and a girl he was on a date with sooo... we're talkin' about it! I didn't want to have the usual back-and-forth banter of who did what or who was in the wrong and should have done what. Instead, I wanted to take this incident as an opportunity to talk to you guys about why it's so important to be aware of what your date's sexual agenda is. I feel as though, because as men we have testosterone and are prone to want to have sex with a woman before appetizers are served, we often forget that, while sex may be our main agenda, it's not always that way for the woman. This can result in unread sig

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I answer 5 quick questions with some quick answers!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how the people around you can influence your feelings about your own relationship - in positive AND negative ways. Specifically, we touch on how it is that the negative thoughts about relationships from those closest to you (friends, family, etc.) can have you looking for problems in your own relationship that may not actually be there. We also talk about just how important it is to surround yourself with people who are in positive relationships, and how both negative and positive thoughts can drastically shape your dating reality and the results you get as a result!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how to change your dating life drastically by focusing on ONE thing at a time. Why? Oftentimes, when we want to improve our dating lives, we look at the 5 to 10 things about ourselves we need to change. You may be scared or think it will take too much work, so you either (a) don't try to change anything, or (b) try to change too much at one time and end up getting mediocre results. In this show, we demonstrate how making an effort to change ONE thing - the thing that will give us the most progress - is a more effective method to getting the dating life you want!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the risks involved in love, and how to better prepare for opening yourself up so you have a greater chance of success and a lesser chance of heart break!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how it is a woman that's interested in you can be turned off when you move too fast! I recently heard a segment on Ryan Seacrest's morning show called "The Second Date Update" where a guy was wondering why a woman he went out with 2 days in a row was suddenly not answering his texts as much. They called the woman up, and her answer is one I've told many, many guys before: he was doing too much too soon. But what exactly is it about doing this that makes women get turned off? We delve into it and more!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a man who wants to know if all married men face the same problem: declining sex lives! He recently talked to a couple of married guys who were facing sex issues with their spouse. One of them had agreed with their wife to a weekend intimate session, only for her to back out after their date; the other man had wanted sex the night before but his wife rejected it.  Based on these two incidents, he concluded that it may be better to stay single, where the chance of having sex whenever you want is higher - in his opinion. We talk about the reasons as to why a declining sex life may occur (outside of aging or lacking of interest). We also talk about the myth of single se

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a message from a guy who's seeing two women, and he wants to know which one he should date. Specifically, he's gone on "a couple of dates" which each one, and wants to know at what point he needs to make a decision about seeing either one of them exclusively. We talk about what it means to be in the "dating phase," and how long one should realistically date before having to make any final calls!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how long it takes to develop a skill like dating so that you look like a "natural." In Michael Gladwell's book "Orbiters" he states that, on average, it takes about 10,000 hours to become proficient in just about any skill. We talk about how this relates to become a good dater, and how this can be helpful - and harmful - when creating your dating life.

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who went on a date with a girl and - despite both him and her being a bit under the weather - went in for a kiss at the end of the date. Later on, he got a message from her saying he should have asked to kiss her first! Is this true? Should he have asked? Are the special circumstances where a guy would be better asking permission for a kiss?

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a questions from a guy who's older, divorced, and has two kids. He's just getting himself back on the dating scene via online dating, but he's worried women won't want to date him due to the baggage of a failed marriage and having children. We dive deep into what this guy should mention on his profile (and leave out altogether) and the truth about women and how they feel about dating a guy who's been married before and has kids to take care of!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who is in a wheelchair, and wants to know how he can attract women and date them without his cerebral palsy handicap getting in the way. Being physically disabled can be a challenge to one's dating life - but just how much of a challenge is it? How judgmental are women about dating someone in a wheelchair? Are there other things he may be doing with his actions that are more of a deterrent than his physical handicap? We answer these questions and more!