Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know how he should answer women on dates when they ask why he's still single and never been married! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know how to bond with a woman on a first date when the two of them don't seem to have anything in common! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know if he should dump a woman he's been dating for 2 months because she got mad at him for suggesting she pay a portion of the tab during a weekend date. See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how long you should wait after a break up to start dating again. Is there really a set amount of time? If not, how can you know when it's good for you to wait verses jump right into something new? We discuss these issues, as well as what you should be doing during your time of singleness to make sure you're prepared for the next woman that comes your way! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I tell you all the story of how (and why) I recently broke off my engagement to my now ex-fiancé. I decided to tell this story because I think it's important for you all to understand that, sometimes, relationship success can mean different things, including the realization that the relationship you're in may not be one that's designed to last long term for a variety of factors. I also wanted to use it to give encouragement to you guys out there who are in situations with women that aren't the most desirable for you, and give insights into what needs to be considered before you decide to make permanent plans with any one. See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know the difference between being persistent in going after a woman vs. harassing her.  To answer this question, I reached out to film maker and author Jasmine Andrews. She has written a book, "Sullied Bride," which delves deep into how historical portrayals and treatment of women, from the Bible to the present, affect men's interactions with women to this day. On this show, Jasmine and I discuss: What it feels like for women when a guy they don't want to get with keeps trying to hit on them A key trait that defines the difference between persistence and harassment The effect of a man's ego on his viewpoint of what actions he finds acceptable when pursuing How the story of Adam & Eve has had a lasting negative effect on women's treatment in society What men can do to be better allies with women And much, much more! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how you can improved your PERCEIVED value to women. Often, when a man meets a woman, he does everything he can to try and explain to a woman why he's a GREAT catch, right? The problem, though, is that you can't really try to convince a woman verbally that she should fall for you.  In order for women to like you, they have to feel like you have the kind of high value she's looking for in a guy... even if that value, in your head, isn't actually there. It's all about knowing how to present yourself in a way that she perceives you to have a certain kind of value that's important to her. How do you do that? We talk about that in the podcast today! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift f

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know at what point during his interaction with a new girl should he ask her for her phone number! He also inquires about how he can prevent himself from putting a certain race of women on a pedestal, which results in him being too nervous to ask them out! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about why it is men have such a hard time getting back into the dating game after being heartbroken so many times. We also talk about 6 key things I did in order to bypass any past heartbreak I had, so that I could leave myself open to finding Mrs. Right in the future. Use these 6 tips to prevent yourself from avoiding potential love! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at   

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how certain habits you may have could actually be a mask for the undealt with loneliness of being single. Sometimes when we are in pain... instead of dealing with that pain, uncovering the underlying root of it or doing something to fix it, we turn to habits that are meant to make us feel good in the moment, even if we know they won't ultimately fix the problem.  When we feel as though no women will ever love us, it can feel like the worse kind of pain. As a result, there are 3 habits that men, in particular, often turn to as a way of getting rid of that feeling - and yet, these habits can actually increase or prolong this painful feeling. Learn what these habits are AND how to avoid them and deal with your true issues in today's podcast! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like a

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know if he handled a situation in the right way by giving a woman an ultimatum about "wasting his time." Specifically, he had been on a date with this woman twice and was disappointed with how quickly she was texting him back one night (every 15 to 20 min). When he asked if he could call her instead, she didn't respond until the next morning - at which point, he sent her the text about how she needed to be more respectful of his time. Did he handle this the right way? Should he have been more patient? And when is it ok to give women ultimatums like this? See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at 

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer a question from a guy who met a woman online dating, and his having a hard time determining her interest level! Why? Because despite having gone on 4 dates together, having an amazing hook-up session and her always saying "yes" to dates, she (a) hasn't been texting or calling him, and (b) still has her online dating profile up. What does this say about her interest level? Should she be calling him, or is he supposed to be the only one reaching out? And how do you get a girl to take down her online profile - and, more importantly, WHEN should she do it? See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at 

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer the question: Does constant access age your relationship faster? I recently watched Chris Rock's new Netflix comedy special, "Tambourine." In it, he does a bit talking about how, because of cell phones and other recent technologies, the constant access we have to each other can result in relationships (a) feeling a lot longer than back in his parents' days, and (b) deteriorating faster. Is this true? Is the ability to communicate with someone all the time hindering how long we hold affection for each other? And if so, what can be done to prevent this from happening in YOUR relationship? See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question men have been asking for dozens of years: how long does a man need to last in bed to satisfy a woman, and how can he make it last longer? See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at 

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who met an older lady online that insists he call her up for a date instead of asking for one via text messaging! Is this an example of a woman trying to see who truly would hold the power in this relationship? Is it better to call a woman for a date vs. texting her? Is this an issue he should stand up for himself in, or is it no big deal? And, are there other indicators here of the kind of person this woman is and how she would be to date? See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at 

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we're starting a new series called "Interview with a Married Man!" In this series, I interview men who have been in a committed long term relationship for some time (like 5 years or more) to get their insights on various relationship topics, including: - How they met their now wife - What their dating process was like - How they knew their wife was the one they wanted to commit to long-term - Conflict resolution tactics they use to handle disagreements - How they continue to spend quality time with each other when kids and other life events come into play - And much, much more! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I talk about a conversation I had recently with an atheist friend of mine with a girlfriend who's baptist. She told him recently that they wouldn't ever get married because he doesn't believe in God, and asked me if this was an issue that could ever be overcome. Indeed, this is a subject I'm sure many other couples face as it pertains to religion, God, and the pondering of just how serious a factor it would play in a long-term relationship. I discuss these points, and give a straight answer to the question: "Can people of two different religious belief systems make it work?" See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we interview Marni the Wing Girl!  Marni has been the right-hand woman a guy needs out in the dating field when it comes to approaching women in any situation. Her website,  has great articles and videos with blunt, honest advice for men on how to attract, date, seduce and get the girl every time! In this eye-opening interview, we talk about: - Why women aren't always aware of what they REALLY find attractive  - How to feel more comfortable when approaching women - Simple ways to create conversations that increase attraction - The #1 issue men face when dating, and how to conquer it - Subtle signs women use to indicate a desire for your attention, and how to be more aware of what they are - A secret about women and dating you may not have known before - And much more! --- Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation wit

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a man who wants to win back his ex-girlfriend. His ex-wife was constantly coming in between them (either by his doing or by hers) so she's having a hard time forgiving him; meanwhile, he's been texting her and telling her his feelings, but she's been avoiding seeing him in person. This is one of the longer shows, in part because I asked him for a lot of details to give him a more thorough answer. Take a listen, and learn how to avoid making some of the mistakes guys commonly make when dealing with exes and new love.

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer the question "does honesty REALLY attract women?" What you'll be hearing today is a complete chapter from my best-selling eBook for men, "No Girls 4 U: The Ultimate Guide to LOSING the Girl of Your Dreams!"