Stop Losing Women Podcast

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy that many other men have asked as well: why would anyone want to get into a long-term relationship? What are the benefits? How is it better than being single and leaving yourself open to a wide option of women vs. just one woman for the rest of your life? We actually talk about 6 benefits being in a long-term relationship has, some of which you may have never considered before!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know how he can set up hook-ups with women without having to make them think he wants a relationship! Just because you're not at a point in your life where you want a commitment from a woman doesn't mean you won't have physical needs you'd like met. The question, though, is if THEY can ever also be on the same page. We delve into if all women want relationships, what they expect from you during the dating phase, and whether or not it's fair or unfair to go about having sex with them should they be seeking out a relationship!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Subscribe to my YouTube Channel:   Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer a question from a guy who is really down in the dumps about his dating life. Despite having all the things most guys would want to have as a way of attracting women (i.e. good looks, cars, social status, etc.) he can't muster up the confidence to approach women. His self-doubt is causing him to overthink things when he sees someone he likes, and he needs help on figuring out how to change his dating mindset. We give him some tips on how he can narrow his short-term focus to get long-term results!    

I want to help YOU plan your new dating strategy in a one-on-one FREE phone call - sign up at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who is worried that he's lost a woman's interest because he didn't respond to her Snapchat message right away. Is she really mad at him? What should her response tell him about her? And, what can he do to make sure this doesn't happen again in the future? Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

 Sign up for a FREE one-on-one phone consultation with me, where we map out a working strategy for your dating life! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who went on a first date with a woman who initially agreed to go back to his place... only to change her mind after the date! She sent him a text saying she wasn't comfortable going back with him, and he wants to know if this means she's no longer interested and - more importantly - why she would change her mind in the first place! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Subscribe to my videocast at

 Sign up for a FREE one-on-one phone consultation with me, where we map out a working strategy for your dating life! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who's live-in girlfriend/soon-to-be-baby's-mom has been following and liking her ex's pictures on Instagram and Facebook! He wants to know why she is doing this, and what he should do to stop it.  During this show, we also talk about some of the various bad decisions this guy has made in terms of choosing a mate - specifically: What red flags he ignored that he should have paid attention to Why it's a BAD decision to live with someone before marrying them Why it's an even WORSE decision to get a woman pregnant before commitment Her level of interest based on her current actions Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Subscribe to my videocast at  

Sign up for a FREE one-on-one coaching call with Harry Wilmington: On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who had a non-relationship with a woman who wanted to be his girlfriend. Once her feelings went away he started liking her, but has found it difficult to get her on a date. She recently told him they should no longer speak to each other, and he was shocked! Why did she do this? Is she trying to make him jealous? And what can he do to win her back (if anything)? Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

Need help creating a dating plan that will boost your self-confidence and have women chasing after YOU? Sign up for a FREE one-on-one phone coaching call - for more info go to  today! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know why a woman won't have sex with him, despite having already gone on three whole dates! It can mess with your head when a girl you really like - and want to show you like by way of having sex with her - rejects your offer to get physical, right? What does it mean? Why might she be doing this? Is she one of those girls that has "rules" she makes her dates follow before having sex with them? The answer to these questions may shock you... Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about why we continuously make bad dating decisions, and what you can do to remedy the situation! If you're currently single, in a bad relationship, are shy, or just can't seem to attract women, guess what? It's all because of the way in which you go about making decisions you deem correct - even if they are the wrong ones. This normally happens because how one gets to success vs. how one is taught to think about success can be drastically different. Oftentimes, the things we've learned we SHOULD do to get the things we want aren't actually the most effective way to go about doing it. Why/how does this happen? We delve into that today, and show you the first important step you MUST do if you want to correct course and start making the RIGHT decisions to better you dating life! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Also, would you like me to help you create an effective dating plan for your life? Check out  and sign up for a FREE one-on-one coach

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss the importance of having a dating action plan to succeed with women. I also talk about my new offering where I'll jump on the phone with you for FREE and help you plan out your dating life - IF you qualify. Go to  for more details!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I talk about my Grandma, who recently passed away at the age of 94, and what her presence on this earth taught me about the kind of woman who is worth getting with and why. Download my eBooks and more at Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

Attract Women Faster by learning key strategies in my webinar, "7 Habits of Highly Effective Daters" - sign up at   On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about being a go-getter, take-action guy who goes after the women he wants... as opposed to the "fall back and wait" guy that prays women notice how nice he is! We go over a few ways for you to become more comfortable approaching the women you desire, regardless of your status or how you look! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

Sign up for the "7 Habits of Highly Effective Daters" webinar @ http://www.StopLosingWomen.com! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss the importance of being able to talk about things with your mate that you'd like her to change... but first making sure her changes aren't the result of not being aware of changes YOU need to make! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at harry@stoplosingwomen.com!

Sign up for the "7 Habits of Highly Effective Daters" webinar masterclass at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a message from a guy who's been dating a woman for 2 months now that's ready to turn this thing into a relationship! However, he is hesitant because, in the looks department, he only rates her as a 6 and feels he may be able to do better. Should he drop her, become her boyfriend, or see if they can just continue fooling around without any real commitment? Harry Wilmington's got the answers! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Watch this podcast in video form @    

Discover the habits that make you irresistible to women with my NEW masterclass, "7 Habits of Highly Effective Daters" - sign up at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we interview Eyal from  He is a sexual empowerment coach who teaches people how to get in touch with (and improve) their sexual energy. In this interview, we discuss a wide variety of topics, including: How men can connect better with their sexual energy The mixed messages men receive about sex in their early years that affects their lives Why women prefer a man that is not afraid of sex and masculinity The effect a man's feelings about his sexuality and practices on his approach/relationships to women, his life goals and more How to last longer during sex so you REALLY satisfy women in the bedroom And more! We also have a special link you can use on my site to get a discount on Eyal's materials - just go to  to get the code and the affiliate link (full disclosure: I do get commission when you go through this link). Got a qu

Sign up for the "7 Habits of Highly Effective Daters" webinar at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we compare phone chargers to dating??? No really, we do! We talk about power cords, plugs, and how knowing the difference can be compared to what you REALLY need to fix when changing your dating life! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

Watch the video of this podcast @ http://www.YouTube.com/StopLosingWomen.com With the recent allegations of sexual harassment against Harvey Weinstein and Andy Signore (of Honest Trailers fame), I thought it was time to give you guys a crash course in sex, consent, and harassment... Sign up for the "7 Habits of Highly Effective Daters" webinar at ! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

Watch this podcast in video form at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a message from a guy who's never been on a real date or been in a relationship. He wants to know what he's doing wrong, and if he should consider using dating apps as a way of testing out the dating waters! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Sign up for my FREE webinar, "7 Habits of Highly Effective Daters," at  

The recent tragic events in Las Vegas was a national tragedy where 59 people died and many hundreds more were injured. In the course of that, you saw many brave men using themselves to shield the women they love from harm, some of them losing their lives in the process. Which got me to thinking: when men go after women, do they ever think about if she is good enough to be worth the ultimate sacrifice? I examine this question in a rant that's not quite a podcast episode, but are my unplugged thoughts about the matter. Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Sign up for my "7 Habits of Highly Effective Daters" webinar at

Sign up for "7 Habits of Highly Effective Daters" webinar at http://www.StopLosingWomen.com Today, we answer a question from a guy who got told by a girl he was sleeping with that she liked him. When he told her he was indifferent, she started to back away, and wants to know what gives! Harry gives him the straight-talk answer he needs... Download podcast audio @ https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/stop-losing-women-podcast/id698728389?mt=2 Check out some of Harry's e-Books: http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/ebooks Got a question for Harry? Write to me at harry@stoplosingwomen.com