Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who wants to know if he should forgo being his goofy, joking self in exchange for being a man that’s silent and aloof! Specifically, we go over: The problem with being Mr. Goofy – and it’s not what you think The 3 reasons your humor may be causing you to fail with women Why a woman that likes you will laugh at what you’re saying WITHOUT you having to force it Learning to “read the room”  so you’ll know when to be joking and when to be more serious and/or neutral in attitude …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send us a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to respond when your girlfriend says “It’s getting too serious, too fast!” Specifically, we go over: What makes a girl want to say that statement in the first place Mistakes most guys make that cause a woman to feel like things are moving too fast How to pace out the relationship so she NEVER has this speech with you – and has HER chasing after time with YOU How routine and lack of effort on your part can cause a woman to feel like you two are already an old married couple, and how this contributes to her feeling like things are “too serious” …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss how you can become “The Body Whisperer” that REALLY turns her out in the bedroom and will make her want to keep seeing you! Specifically, we go over: The seemingly “duh” secret to having a GREAT sex session with any woman – and why most guys still don’t seem to get it How to become “The Body Whisperer” that can totally satisfy her in the sack How to pace yourself at her various erogenous zones for maximum pleasure Why she will invite you back over and over again to hook up with her even if the first time was just “okay” (simply because you looked like you were trying) …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who has insecurities about women and dating based on certain self-esteem issues from his childhood/early dating years, and wants to know how to get past them! Specifically, we go over: The concept of “time” and how it effects the way we see ourselves Why the version of you today is NOT the version of you from earlier in your life – and why you can’t allow “past” you to dictate your present and/or future with women How to trick your subconscious into accepting the great guy you are NOW vs. seeing you as the way you felt about yourself in the past How to realize that women will date you as you currently are (and why it’s important to REALLY assess your life as it actually is vs. how you THINK it is) …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the SECRET to getting a new girl you take out to want to come back to your place (or hers) – and it’s not the way you think! Specifically, we go over: The #1 mistake most guys make that deters a woman from wanting to go back to his place How focusing on her COMFORT – not YOUR chances of laying her – can get her in the mood The things you need to be doing on dates to make HER suggest going to your place The art of patience, and how appearing to be that way can actually expedite the “getting laid” process …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how the release of the movie “The Interview” parallels with a concept in dating that I’ve talked about before on this program, and really helps to hammer it home!! Specifically, we go over: How what should have been a very unimportant movie became the most in-demand comedy “Free will” and the lesson to learn about being told you can or can’t experience something The correlation between the release of this movie and how much control guys try to have over certain friends in their girlfriends’ life Why YOUR actions towards her guy friends can result in her wanting to hang out with them MORE, or even hook up with them …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about an scientific study that shows why men don’t listen to women – and it’s not for the reason you think!!  (Note: you can read the article by clicking .) Specifically, we go over: Why men process women’s voices differently from men’s voices The difference between how men and women talk Why I was finally able to realize the reason it can sometimes take me days to process what women say to me How to use this knowledge to instill better communication tactics with the women in your life …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who has been hitting up girls online, but feels he can’t date them since his life is not fully together yet! Specifically, we go over: The probability of being able to keep a relationship going when your life isn’t put together vs. when it is Why a responsible guy will feel inadequate about dating when he’s still figuring things out Logical thinking vs. emotional thinking: why women will date you at ANY stage of your life How to stop blocking yourself from dating a great girl, even if you’re still working on yourself …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how letting a woman go after she rejects your date offer can actually help you to win her! Specifically, we go over: The mistake most guys make after asking a woman out that causes her to want to distance herself even further from him How you can make her go from rejecting you to seeking you out for a date – and why this technique works so well Key insights into a woman’s mind – what thoughts does she have about you when you ask her out and then leave her alone? What to do once she’s convinced herself she wants to go out with you …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who wants to know how to start talking to a girl at work! Specifically, we go over: The specific conversation technique you can use to start a conversation with ANY girl, including that hottie from work (without her thinking you’re weird or creepy) The sequence I use to go from talking at work, to taking her on dates, to hooking up with her Why it’s important to plant “seeds” with a girl at work weeks or months BEFORE you take her out What things to talk about that will have HER asking YOU to take HER out! …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I’m introducing a “kind of” new segment that will be taking over Mailbag Mondays called… ASK HARRY! Today, we answer a comment from a listener asking about whether or not a woman who is willing to sacrifice her own goals to help you with yours is actually worth dating in the first place ! Specifically, we go over: The difference between what qualifies as being “successful” for men and women Why a woman actually PREFERS to help you with your goals Ways to make sure your woman is able to be emotionally happy by helping you, while at the same time achieving whatever goals she has “Guy Logic” vs. “Emotional Logic,” and why feeling like part of a team is more important to her than her desire for accomplishing her solo goals …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the 6 reasons convicted murderer Charles Manson is getting married… and you’re still single! Specifically, we go over: Why I was initially upset when I first heard he was getting married The reason the things that attract women don’t always make sense The needs prisoners give to lonely women 6 reasons this guy is able to get married and you’re not – what POSITIVE character traits does he have that you can use in a less murderous way to attract women? …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s ASK HARRY! We answer a message from a guy who told a girl he liked her… and now, she’s suddenly not responding to him when he asks her out or texts her! He wants to know what he needs to do to get her to go on a date with him! Specifically, we talk about: Why you should never, EVER ask a girl out by telling her you like her first The best way to get a girl to agree to go out with you where she’s comfortable with it The importance of making a girl FEEL like dating you was her idea in the first place The best course of action for gaining back the attention of a girl who’s ignoring you after you confessed your feelings …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how your diet – specifically, the amount of processed sugar you digest – can have a HUGE effect on your dating life! Specifically, we go over: How sugars affect your hormonal balance of testosterone and estrogen Mood swings – how the wrong foods negatively impact how you act and how women see you Examples of things I did to test out my theories about poor diet & attitude Can women sense if your estrogen levels have risen? (Hint: Yes, and here’s why…) …and much more! The following sites had articles that were quoted in this podcast – click on the links for further exploration: Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We received a very special email from a guy who said these podcasts have had a very positive impact on his life! Listen to the show to hear what the message says – it was definitely appreciated!!  I also talk about: How my advice style differs from other “gurus” Why I’m so direct and straight-forward when I give my advice How my materials can best be used to help you in your dating life Important things to remember when reading/listening to my materials …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss 5 instances where it may be beneficial to your dating life to move to a new location! Specifically, we go over: The importance of moving away from home How you can run out of dating options & why Why falling into a routine can affect your mood – and your dating life as a result How to continue on with your dating life after you’ve been dumped or lost a love one that you lived with …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss 6 important reminders for dating during the holiday season! Specifically, we go over: Why I generally do NOT recommend you date anyone new during this time period Why you shouldn’t take it personally when she can’t spend a whole lot of time with you The importance of not contacting her everyday (or expecting her to contact you) Things you need to be understanding of during this time (i.e. not getting as many dates with her, being invited to events, etc.) The reason she’s not fawning all over you but still likes you – and why you should remember that January is right around the corner…   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I give a rant based on a question I was asked over the weekend: how is it you can love someone and still NOT be with that person? Specifically, we go over: How people have been brainwashed into thinking of love as the band-aid to fix all their problems The differences between two people that can end up ruining a relationship, regardless of how much “love” is there Why it’s important for a guy to really vet a person before deciding if he’s in love The best way to end things with someone when you realize it isn’t going to work Why you shouldn’t take it so personally when a girl doesn’t want to be with you …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about an article I read featuring Rob Herjavec (of “Shark Tank” fame) where he talked about the 5 worse sales sins. (Read the article by clicking .) One of those sins in particular – forgetting your mission – can also be applied to your dating life when meeting girls for the first time! Specifically, we go over: The mistake many guys make when meeting women that steers their focus away from what it should be The different goals each section of the “mission” towards being the boyfriend has, and how to execute them Why it’s important to be focused in your mission vs. “seeing what happens” What things to do to make her attracted to you in a “relationship” type of way vs. “friendship” …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who was on-and-off with a girl he worked with; she moved an hour away for a new job, and became a wishy-washy girlfriend who didn’t want to be with him… then did… then didn’t. Now she’s about to get married, and he wants to know what he should do! Specifically, we talk about: Why dating girls from work is NOT recommended Why dating girls that live far away from you is NOT recommended Why a woman would go back to you even if she doesn’t have a high level of interest in you The best course of action for dealing with an ex that’s now taken …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !