Stop Losing Women Podcast

SCIENTIFIC PROOF WOMEN NEED DRAMA IN RELATIONSHIPS??! YESSSSSSS!!! On today’s super-sized episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why women actually NEED drama to take place in their relationships, and 9 ways you can go about instilling drama so that you’re in control of it AND keeping her happy! Specifically, we go over: The emotional needs women have that cause them to create dramatic situations How fear, insecurity, threat of competition and the idea of potential loss make women feel a need for drama Could a woman be creating situations subconsciously so that she can relate to other women? The one POSITIVE reason for women to practice being in dramatic situations – one that could benefit you later in YOUR life How to determine the range/level/frequency of drama your woman needs (and the 2 things it’s based on) Why it’s better for YOU to be in control of the drama she brings to you 9 ways to create dramatic situations in ways that are positive and/or less intense than if she were to bring

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about a scientific study that PROVES a woman will like you more if she’s unsure of your level of like for her (you can read the study yourself by clicking )! Specifically, we go over: Why letting a woman know how much you like her in the beginning will turn her off Actions you can do that will leave her wondering if you like her or not, which will help to increase HER interest in you If it’s ever okay to tell a girl you like her (and if so, how often) Why it’s better to do ACTIONS that show interest moreso than being verbal about it …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who knew a girl for 2 years and was in regular communication with her via texting/calling until 7 months ago, when she started being more distant. He now wants to know how he can win her back – but can he? Specifically, we talk about: The importance of asking a girl out within the first few meet-ups How/why her interests gets lessened the more she hears from you via phone PROOF that cutting communication can be the best way to re-stir up her feelings for you When/how the phone should be used properly when dating a girl …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the #1 sex secret to guarantee she’s satisfied with you in bed! Specifically, we go over: Why not showing a woman a good time in bed will cause her to lose interest (and not for the reasons you think) The ONE key thing you’re not doing that’s causing her to have a bad time in bed with you How implementing this one simple secret will make her feel GRATEFUL to have you as a lover Why most guys’ take an ego hit when a woman tries to get them to do this simple little thing, and why you should be THANKFUL when she does this …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why her dating choice often has nothing to do with you! Specifically, we go over: The reason some women chose not to date you as a result of deeply rooted issues The impact charisma can have over the type of stuff/job you have How her upbringing can determine the kind of guy she dates, and why you may not fit that image for her …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s our 200th show AND it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who acted confident when he first met a girl, but was nervous (and sarcastic) on their first date and turned her off! He wants to know how he can be less nervous when he takes women out! Specifically, we talk about:   The reason the first date shouldn’t be longer than 45 minutes to an hour Why this girl texted him to tell him she was no longer interested – and why he should THANK her for it How having a lack of other dating choices effects a guy’s level of nervousness on a date Why it’s okay to date more than one girl at a time How to become confident enough in yourself to believe you can get other women if your current relationship doesn’t work out – and why it will actually HELP you stay in relationships longer   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why it’s important to always be thinking of ways to improve your relationship, even if it seems to be going great! Specifically, we go over: How me purchasing a new microphone to record this already great program parallels with my thoughts about improving your relationship Why a woman can become bored in an “okay” relationship The importance of continuing to introduce newness into your relationship What women talk about with other women as it pertains to her relationship, and how comparisons to her friends’ love lives can have an effect on how she feels about her own relationship …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the 5 things you can do when asking a girl out to guarantee she doesn’t flake and actually shows up for the date! Specifically, we go over: Why it matters HOW you ask a girl out Ways you’re asking her out that are resulting in her cancelling The importance of setting up all date details on the first call/message Why you should never, EVER call to re-confirm a date A sneaky little trick you can use to make sure she remembers the exact day and time for the date – one that will make her WANT to show up when she said she would! …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy whose girlfriend has gone on holiday where she is staying in a hostel with 2 other guys and occasionally hanging out with them!  He’s not comfortable with it and wants to know if he should confront her and let her know he doesn’t like it! Specifically, we talk about: The reason people feel threatened when their significant other hangs out with a member of the opposite sex Is it ever okay for your girlfriend to hang out with other guys? Why trying to tell her who she can and can’t hang out with usually works AGAINST you My motto about trust, and why it allows me to not freak out when girls I’m dating hang around other guys Why she’s not likely to cheat on you when other guys are around, even if they are attempting to hit on her …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we go inside the workings of the female mind and learn all about what she’s thinking, feeling and doing at around the 3-month dating mark that makes her want to become your boyfriend! Specifically, we go over: PROOF from examples of questions written by women that, if they like you, they are anxious about getting you to ask them to become the girlfriend Advice women are being given that push THEM to be the ones to initiate the “What are we?” conversation Why verbalizing your feelings too early in the dating process will chase them away, and why NOT verbalizing your feelings will make her want to “define the relationship” with you a lot sooner …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to keep a girl interested should you end up hooking up with her as early as the first or second date! Specifically, we go over: A MAJOR mistake guys do that chases women away when done too shortly after having first date sex Why it's important to continue to treat her in the same way as if you didn't hook up with her early on The only difference between how you treat a girl you didn't hook up with on a first date and a girl you did – and why it actually benefits you MORE if you're practicing patience …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you'd like discussed? Send Harry a message HERE!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who met a woman at a street fair, was hearing from her every day for a week and a half, and then one day… she didn’t text him! Does this mean she’s lost interest? Specifically, we talk about: How serious can a couple REALLY be after a week and a half of dating? Why you should avoid verbally expressing your feelings to a woman you’re still in the dating phase with How to set up phone expectations for her on date 1 so she won’t leave you when you’re not contacting her between dates Why saying “she always used to do this, now she doesn’t” can’t be used when you haven’t dated someone for more than 2 weeks …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss the impact of giving a woman too many options about available date days/places to go on your dating life! Specifically, we go over: A study that shows why giving people too many options often results in them choosing NOTHING – read the full study Why she doesn’t respond back to your dating request of “choose any day/place,” even if she’s DYING to go out with you Why narrowing down her choices of days/places can increase the number of “yeses” you get from women you’re asking out …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about an amendment that should be made to the golden rule, “do unto others as you would have them do unto you!” Specifically, we go over: Why you should actually do unto others as they would LIKE to have done unto them The reason women will leave a dude even if he’s doing the things he THINKS he should do to care for her Determining your woman’s love language – and how to show it to her …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who has a very simple question: how do you ask a girl out in person?! Specifically, we talk about: Why you should NOT reveal your feelings about her when asking her out The main reason I steer clear of asking for a date when I first meet a girl What you can do after meeting a new woman that will increase your chances of getting a “yes” – and it has everything to do with PATIENCE The art of asking her out and making her FEEL like she has a choice in the matter even though she doesn’t …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to handle it when the “honeymoon phase” of the relationship is over and you start having “fights” with your girlfriend! Specifically, we go over: Why I actually look forward to the “Honeymoon Phase” of a relationship ending What it means when she brings an issue to your attention The best (and worst) ways to handle an issue with your girlfriend Should you think of the conflict as a “fight” or as something else? How to set up the discussion so that both parties are heard and feel validated, even if there is no resolution …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s our 1-year anniversary!! Last year, on September 1, 2013, I did my first podcast. At the time, I didn’t know if people would even listen to the show or agree with the things I had to say; nevertheless, I did the show, and the next one, and the next one… and now, 189 shows later, the number of listeners continue to grow, and the number of people who have been helped by my advice about love, dating, women, etc. continue to be shown via the messages I receive on a regular basis! Thanks to all the people out there who have downloaded the show, told their friends about it, have agreed to be interviewed for it, etc. Without you (and the girls who, for better or worse, wouldn’t date me back in the day), this show would not be possible. I look forward to recording even more podcast, and bigger and better things are coming very, VERY soon! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we go over how you should proceed at a woman’s place when she invites you over for “dinner” on the 3rd date! Specifically, we go over:   The universal understanding of the “dinner and a movie” invitation The various steps a guy needs to take to have the best chance of hooking up with a girl at her place Why she’s more likely to go further with you if you stop when she asks you to The importance of “testing the boundaries” – or risk ending up in the friendzone!   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we give you a GREAT online dating tip that you can use to get more dates online! Specifically, we go over:   Why you need to ask her for the DATE instead of her number The reason most guys don’t ask for the date directly The reason girls are more apt to say “yes” to a date with you  vs. after you’ve texted her for a few weeks How you’ll be able to stand out from the rest of the guys online by actually asking her out   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who is set to go on vacation with his girlfriend and her friends. They chose one of the places to stay without consulting him, and he’s wondering if she’s trying to test him to see if he’ll stand up for himself! Specifically, we talk about:   How/why recovering nice guys can feel threatened when their girl makes a decision without consulting them How to tell the difference between an ACTUAL problem vs. a problem arising from ego Why a girl making a decision without talking to you is rarely ever her trying to test your Alpha 2 crucial things to remember before reacting to any situation   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !