Date Your Wife

What happens when you hear a voice and know—instantly—this is part of your calling? In this Date Your Wife episode from the Miami studio, Clayton and Dr. Christina share the wild, honest story of how their relationship began with a "tap from God," an unexpected connection, and a mission that turned into marriage. They talk about what it really takes to rebuild after a painful divorce, set non-negotiable standards, and create trust when the stakes are high—especially with a blended family and real scars from the past. This conversation cuts through romance-movie fluff and gets into the raw truth: boundaries, integrity, safety, presence, and choosing each other when life demands you be a better man and a stronger woman.    

In this raw and revealing Date Your Wife episode, Garrett and Danielle White break down the real stages of marriage — build, balance, and rebuild — and how success in business often comes at the cost of connection at home. They share never-before-told stories of how the early builder phase of entrepreneurship created unseen damage in their relationship, how they lost and rebuilt everything, and the lessons that came from 20+ years together as partners, parents, and entrepreneurs.

After divorce and heartbreak, Alex and Valeria rebuilt their lives, their family, and their faith. In this episode, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with the couple to talk about how they turned conflict into connection using a simple daily practice they call The Love Thing. They share what it takes to blend families, rebuild trust, and bring God and structure back into the home. From the "Man in the Arena" event that changed Alex's life to Valeria's journey of surrender and support, this is a raw look at what modern marriage and masculine leadership really require.

In this raw and powerful episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White pull back the curtain on what it really takes to stay connected when life, business, and technology are moving faster than ever. From the unseen war zones of entrepreneurship to the shifting dynamics of marriage, they explore: Why men disconnect under pressure—and how to break that pattern The real reason business success often kills intimacy How AI is exposing (and replacing) 95% of coaches—and what that means for relationships The balance between spiritual growth, sex, and survival in a collapsing system And a surprisingly emotional experiment using ChatGPT as a “marriage therapist” This conversation dives deep into the future of love, leadership, and technology—and why now more than ever, couples must learn to build the stage together rather than perform alone.

What happens when two high-performing entrepreneurs find not just love, but a shared mission to transform health, relationships, and purpose?  In this episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with powerhouse JJ Virgin and Tim for an unforgettable conversation about love, leadership, and legacy. From their unconventional "Virgin Oregon Experience" wedding (yes, it doubled as a charity mastermind) to their serendipitious Match.com beginning, JJ Virgin and Tim share how deep partnership can elevate both business and intimacy. They open up about learning to trust again after past heartbreaks, merging their strengths as co-founders, and keeping passion alive amid constant travel and high performance. The conversation dives into balancing masculine and feminine energy, healing trauma, redefining success, and building a spiritual foundation that fuels both business growth and personal connection. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a power couple, or someone seeking deeper alignment in

In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle and Garrett White open up about navigating massive life shifts from selling their california home and businesses to rebuilding their world in Miami, while keeping thier 22-year marriage alive, passionate, and brutally honest. The conversation takes a powerful turn as they reflect on the recent assassination of Charlie Kirk and its ripple effect on free speech, family safety, and the courage to speak truth, how resentment builds when honesty is suppressed, and the surprising ways intimacy and language ("quickie" vs "canoodling") can either deepen or distance connection. WIth humor, candor, and their signature real-talk style, Garrett and Danielle tackle sex, parenting, therapy, triggers, and transformation proving that growth in marriage requires courage, confrontation, and recommitment to each new version of your partner. Whether you're married, dating, or redifining your relationship, this episode will challenge you to face truth, emb

In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle welcome back powerhouse couple Ray and Jessica Higdon for a raw, unfiltered conversation about marriage, faith, and intimacy. The first time they joined us, the conversation was so fiery it literally burned out the audio, so we knew we had to do it again. This time, the Higdons dive even deeper: from their unlikely first meeting to weathering financial collapse, marital drift, and identity crises, to finding restoration through faith and renewed purpose. Together, we unpack: The seven year "itch" every marriage faces and how to grow through it. Why communication breakdowns can masquerade as criticism and rejection. How faith transformed their relationship and reignited Ray's joy. The unspoken dynamics of sex, stress, and intimacy in long-term partnerships. The crucial role of women seeing potential in their men before they see it themselves. This episode is brutally honest, funny, and packed with wisdom for couples navigating the m

What happens when love moves beyond gifts, status, and transactional expectations with unconditonal connection?  In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with Jarek and Jessica share how they built trust, learned to communicate through conflict, and redefined love on their own terms. Together, the couples dive deep into the challenges of transactional dynamics in relationships, why presence matters more than material things, and how to break free from performance-driven love to experience true intimacy. Packed with real stories, emotional breakthroughs, and practical wisdom, this episode is a must-listen for couples who want mroe than surface-level connection. Tune in for conversations on marriage, love, family, blended households, relationship growth, presence, trust, vulnerability, and building a lasting partnership. Make sure you follow us on Instagram Danielle K White Garrett J White Date Your Wife Podcast

In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife podcast, Garrett and Danielle sit down with Travis Wallace and Sofia Perez, a dynamic couple whose story bridges sports, fitness, love, and entrepreneurship. From their early days as a college coach and tennis player who barely spoke, to building a thriving business and life together in Miami, Travis and Sofia share how discipline, sacrifice, and faith shaped both their relationships and their careers. Travis, a former professional basketball player turned NBA trainer, opens up about the grind of building success from scratch and the mental shift required to scale beyond individual performance. Sofia, a former Costa Rican national tennis player, reveals how rediscovering her passion after injury and refusing to be swept up in Miami's party culture, helped her align with a bigger purpose. Together, they explore the realities of building as a couple: defining roles, balancing obsession with presence, and staying rooted in connection despite the lure of comparison a

In this candid throwback episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle and Garrett get brutally honest about marriage, sex, faith, and messy reality of raising five kids while running multiple businesses. Recorded during their early days in Miami, the conversation dives into the clashes and breakthroughs that every couple can relate to from explosive arguments over laundry baskets to the deeper truth of what it takes to feel seen, appreciated, and connected in a long-term relationship. With humor, raw vulnerability, and zero filter, they unpack the "easy button" for men, why women hold back, and how resentment, timing, adn stress can sabotage intimacy.  They also share how relocating, embracing new environments, adn setting higher standards for themselves let to a spiritual and relational rebirth. If you've ever wondered how to rebuild love after conflict, balance individual standards with partnerships, or reignite passion in marriage, this episode will hit home. Make sure to follow us on Instagram Danielle

In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle and Garrett step away from guests and return to the original heart of the show, candid conversations about marriage, family, and the messy realities of building a life together. With 22 years of marriage, five kids, and multiple businesses behind them, they open up about navigating sick kids on the first day of school, unexpected detours in life, and the constant need to course correct in relationships. They dive deep into the recurrin struggles couples face: sex, money, intimacy, presence, and words of affirmation, while exposing the hidden reserviors men and women often fail to fill each other. From near-divorce moments in 2016 to rediscovering passion, presence, and consistency, Garrett and Danielle reveal how growth in marriage mirrors growth in business: cycles of breakdown and reinvention are not only normal but necessary. Whether you're newly married or decades in, this episode offers practical wisdom, hard truths, and vulnerabl

In one of the most powerful and spirit-led episodes of The Date Your Wife Podcast to date, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with Miami with Douglas and Sonia James for a soul-baring, laughter-filled, and emotionally rich conversation about love, marriage, faith, and everything in between. From a hilarious Ulta Beauty first encounter involving lobster cream gone wrong, to a near-death allergic reaction that led to a first date, Douglas and Sonia's orgin story is as unforgettable as it is divinely orchestrated. But beyond the laughs lies a deeper, more sobering truth: marriage is hard and this couple doesn't shy away from the raw details of betrayal, postpartum trauma, spiritual disconnection, and the near collapse of their marriage. Through God, vulnerability, and relentless commitment, they've clawed their way back to each other and they're still in it doing the work. If you've ever wondered if your relationship can survive the storms of entrepreneurship, parenthood, and past pain, this episode will give y

In this raw and revealing episode of the Date Your Wife podcast, Danielle K White and Garrett J White open the doors to their personal evolution as a couple, unpacking the emotional truth behind decades of disconnection, reactivity and the slow but powerful journey back to intamacy. What starts as a teasing nod to influencer breakups turns into a profound dialogue on marriage, vulnerability, and communication. From emotional rejection and withheld affection to finding breakthroughs in the bedroom and the boardroom, Garrett and Danielle courageously explore how childhood trauma, social media, and unmet needs silently shape modern relationships. You'll hear candid confessions, unexpected humor (including cheetah-print boxers and vibrator mishaps), and hard-won lessons on how to validate your partner while honoring yourself. Whether you're newly married or 20 years deep, this conversation will challenge what you think you know about love, affection, and what it really takes to keep desire and respect alive. Grab

In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife podcast, Garrett and Danielle sit down with longtime friend and original Warrior, Marty Orefice, and his fiancé Elyse for a deeply moving conversation about love, transformation, and resilience. From a chance meeting at the YMCA to navigating chronic illness, blended family dynamics, and business-building side by side, this is a story of radical honesty, commitment, and unconditional support.   Marty shares how he went from being Warrior’s first-ever client to building a thriving supplement brand (Aspire Nutrition) born out of a father’s relentless quest to help his son recover from autism. Elyse opens up about the unwavering love that carried them both through his Lyme disease battle and how their relationship grew even stronger in the fire.   This episode dives into real talk on communication after divorce, navigating power dynamics in dating and business, rekindling intimacy, and the kind of loyalty that doesn’t quit, no matter what. Make sure to follow us on

In this raw and inspiring episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, we sit down with Anthony and Tereza Lolli a powerhouse couple who turned mentorship into marriage and love into a movement. Known for being the fittest couple we've ever hosted, they share the vulnerable and powerful evolution of their relationship from a chance meeting in a Manhattan Starbucks to building an empire rooted in respect, passion, and purpose. We unpack the early stages of their connection, Anthony 100+lb weight loss transformation, and the unconventional ways Tereza motivated lasting change. From business mentorship and friendship to navigating the hard truths of obesity, marriage, and self-respect, their story is a masterclass in building intimacy without shortcuts. The Lollis also discuss their shared commitment to biohacking, parenting like CEO's and maintaining desire while scaling empires. Plus, they dive into hormone optimization, women's wellness, and how couples can reconnect through shared vision and health. If you're buil

In this electrifying and deeply vulnerable episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, we welcome powerhouse couple Forbes Riley, media mogul and motivational icon, and Joshua Self, former Chippendale turned world champion bodybuilder. What starts as a playful and candid dive into their unconventional love story quickly unfolds into a raw conversation about healing, intimacy, emotional connection, and the difference between sex and making love. Forbes opens up about overcoming personal loss, navigating identity beyond her public persona, and embracing vulnerability as "Francin". Joshua shares how he helped her rediscover a softer side of herself through consistent ove, presence, and intentional touch. Together, they challenge outdated beliefs about relationships, age gaps, and gender roles. Expect unfiltered humor, real talk on sex vs intimacy, (hello QQP) spiritual alignment, adn surprisingly tender reflections on what it means to truly be seen and loves for who you are. Whether you're building a conscious partne

Dive into one of the most revealing and transformative episodes of The Date Your Wife Podcast! Garrett and Danielle sit down with reowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton, a true pioneer in teaching couples how to turn their sex lives into spiritual, pleasure-filled connections. In this episdoe, Susan breaks down the science behind female ejaculation, yes squirting is real and demystifies the often misunderstood "G-Spot" and "U-Spot". She shares her personal journey from frustrated marriage to discovering orgasmic bliss through radical honesty, tantric practices like yoni/lingam massage, and sexual skills that transform intimacy into sacred communion.

In this raw episode of the Date Your Wife podcast, Garrett and Danielle White tackle one of the most overlooked issues in modern marriage: staying stuck in relationships that look committed but feel lifeless. With over 23 years of marriage, five kids, and multiple near-divorces behind them, the Whites open up about the gritty, real-world truth of rebuilding connection, chemistry, and purpose in a relationship that's seen it all. They dive headfirst into the toxic tendency of using religion and scripture as weapons to justify inaction, avoidance, and moral superiority, calling out the hypocrisy in a way that only they can. This conversation isn't just about faith; it's about fruit. Are the people you're listening to actually living lives you'd want? If not, why are you taking advice from them? Whether you're married, on the edge of divorce or questioning the role fo faith in your relationship, this episode will challenge your assumptions, shake your comfort zone, and deliver a powerful reminder: transformation

In this fiery, unfiltered episode, Garrett and Danielle get brutally honest about what happens when you start rising—haters, betrayal, Reddit threads, and all. From building the Man in the Arena movement to uncovering the dark truths about marriage, sex, and addiction, this episode dives deep into the emotional cost of leveling up. You’ll hear: The real reason people start tearing you down when you win Why most marriages fall apart (hint: it’s not just about sex) How Danielle found her voice—and why she’s not afraid to use it The shocking stats around porn addiction from 1,300 men in a room What “duty booty” is… and why it’s killing connection And how building events, empires, and a life together is the ultimate test This one’s raw. This one’s real. And this one might just change how you view your partner, your past, and your purpose. New episodes drop weekly. Subscribe and follow for more behind-the-scenes truth from the front lines of marriage, business, and becoming who you were born to be. Want more inf

In this fiery and emotionally rich episode of the Date Your WIfe podcast, Garrett and Danielle are joined by the magnetic couple Eli and Bryn, whose story starts in an Austi healing studio with a glance, a cheetah-print moment, and a whole lot of unexpected emotional chemistry. What begins as a charged, almost cosmic connection turns into a deep dive into the personal transformations that made their relationship possible. Eli shares his journey from shallow hookups and playing it safe, to embracing emotional maturity and spiritual celibacy. Bryn opens up about leaving a decade-long marriage to a reclaim her identity, rediscover her sexuality, and rebuild a life rooted in her life. Not just in support of someone else's dream. Together, they unpack what it really means to meet someone after you've done the work. From breakups and Burning Man to emotional breakthroughs on massage tables, this episode is a wild, honest ride through sex, soul work, and the spiritual realness of modern love. It's a must-listen for