Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a listener who wants to get in contact again with a girl who dumped him 4 and a half months ago! Specifically, we go over:   The REAL purpose of going “No Contact” and why you shouldn’t expect it to make her want you back Why the chances of her taking you back are lessened if SHE did the dumping Sure she dumped you “today,” but how long was she wanting to do it? The truth about her not wanting to “risk” contacting you… especially if she thinks you’re the love of her life The best course of action this guy could take in this scenario   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we debunk the myth about women having a LARGE number of prospects to choose from! Specifically, we go over: Why contacting her constantly in an attempt to have her remember you will NOT work in your favor Why women do not take every prospect that comes along trying to date them How LESS contact in the beginning can result in a higher probability of her going out with you    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about 5 reasons why trying to plan a date based on her timetable will usually result in her not wanting to go out with you! Specifically, we go over:   Why being courteous and asking her to let you know her schedule is actually a BAD thing How to ask her out and allow her to give input without making it FEEL like you’re doing so Why she’s more apt to bend to date days that work for YOU vs. the other way around How being able to do a date “whenever she’s free” takes away the specialness (in her mind) of the kind of date you’re planning The positive male qualities that are displayed when you ask her out without worrying about when she’s free    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a question from a listener who has been texting a girl everyday, and wants to know why she recently stopped being the one to text him first! Specifically, we go over:   Where guys fail in texting game Why a girl would rather meet up with you in person vs. you wanting to build up comfort via the phone The time limit on how long a guy has to ask her out before she stops responding altogether   We also answer a question from ANOTHER listener about why the woman he’s dating doesn’t feel like he’s really trying to get to know her! Specifically, we go over:   How his dating schedule with this girl is making her FEEL like he’s not getting to know her (even if he is) The TRUTH about why a woman delays sex when she’s feeling like you’re not connecting with her How a guy with a busy schedule can still carve out quality time to make her feel cared for    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of continuing to plan dates with a woman after you’ve made her the girlfriend! Specifically, we go over:   The importance of planning a date a few days out vs. the same day or next day How guys fall into the trap of inviting her over vs. asking her on a REAL date Why a girl will be wooed by you continuing to take her out Why she is likely to lose interest in you if all your “quality time” with her is spent at home How often you should try taking her out on a REAL date to keep the spark alive    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we interview fan favorite McKenzie about the wrong – and right – ways to comfort a girl when she’s going through something! Specifically, we go over:   Is it more important to listen or give advice when she comes to you with a problem/situation? What a girl is feeling when her guy tries to bypass her feelings How not to appear insensitive to her needs – and how just listening actually CAN be helpful When is it okay for a guy to give advice or help to her situation? How you can tell if what you’re doing is helpful, or if she’s taking your advice    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss an interesting topic that I saw discussed on a YouTube video (that I now can’t find, grrrr): do women purposefully turn their boyfriends/husbands into guys that are unattractive? Specifically, we go over: The phenomenon of women asking their men to stop doing the things they initially found attractive about them (i.e. playing in a band, working out, etc.) The fear she has about losing you to other women, and how she subconsciously tries to make sure it doesn’t happen by slowly asking you to get rid of things in your life that would draw other women to you Why it’s NOT in your best interest to change certain things about yourself – and why, despite her request for you to do so, she really doesn’t want you to    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss the main reason a girl will leave you for her close guy friend – and guess what, it’s YOUR fault! Specifically, we go over: How and why I got addicted to Candy Crush Saga, and what made me play a game I had no desire to play in the first place Why she really will NOT consider dating her close guy friend until you tell her not to Why you should not feel the need to tell your girl to stay away from her guy friend    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s Mailbag Mondays! We open up the email box and read messages from fans of the show! Specifically, we go over: A message from a listener who has a girl that liked him when he didn’t like her, and now he likes her but she’s not being receptive to his advances!   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about whether or not hooking up with a whole lot of girls means you’re actually good with women! Specifically, we go over: Does the number of hook ups you have mean you’re actually good with women? What’s better: a guy that’s been with multiple girls or one that’s only been with ONE his whole life? How the ego tricks you into putting importance on having a wide variety of women on your lay list Why pick up techniques are both great and a hinderance   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should try planning out a “bad” first date with a woman! Specifically, we go over: Why fear is able to hold us back from asking a girl out on a date The number one thing to remember about forcing yourself to go after what you want The purpose behind planning a bad date What things to do on this horrendous date to make it the worst possible one ever   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s Mailbag Mondays! We open up the email box and read messages from fans of the show! Specifically, we go over: A message from a listener who’s been able to use the info in the podcast to hook up with a girl who had previously put him in the “friend zone!” An update from a previous listener who had a girl go cold on him a month ago – now she’s hit him up asking why he feels she’s still alone! How did he answer? Did he answer the right way? And how much resentment should you show towards someone you previously dated when they hit you up?   …and much more!   Podcast referenced in this episode include:   Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about an advanced dating technique – how to train a girl to NOT hear back from you right away when she calls or messages you! Specifically, we go over: How delaying your call to her after the first date can help weed out the sane girls from the “emotionally unstable” ones Why your girlfriend of 6 months or more will get mad at you when you don’t contact her back right away How to get a woman into the habit of not hearing back from you right away Why it’s important to get a woman comfortable with you hitting her back later (if you don’t, it will bite you in the butt later!)   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss 5 simple steps you can use to pick up a girl at a party, as early as TONIGHT! Specifically, we go over: Why it’s important to learn what NOT to do before doing these techniques Building social proof so she sees you as someone she should get to know How to come at her indirectly to see if she wants to even talk to you in the first place What you should do after you get her number – how long should you stay around afterward?   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s Mailbag Mondays, where we answer questions sent in by loyal listeners! Today, we answer a guy’s question about a shy girl at work that he wants to ask out – is there a different way you’re supposed to pursue girls that are a bit timid? Specifically, we go over: How to proceed when a co-worker/friend tells you someone else has a crush on you Why you need to get a girl’s number when you first meet up with her, not later Reading her signals – do shy girls give off the same signals as outgoing girls? Shy girls vs. outgoing girls – are there differences in how you should approach them? How does YOUR demeanor play a factor in creating comfort with/for a woman?   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about what “One-i-tis” is… and what it isn’t! Specifically, we go over: Why having “One-i-tis” is so heavily frowned upon The positive aspect of having only ONE person you’re interested in How to show interest in that one special person without chasing them off   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you shouldn’t be treating every girl like she’s special – especially if you have that ONE girl you’re trying to go out with! Specifically, we go over: The consequence of treating every girl in your life the exact same Why preferential treatment should only be used on girls you’re going out with Why women may not feel like you like them based on how special you treat other women   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we share some advance game and detail how NOT getting a woman you’ve only been dating for a couple of months can help you in making her become your girfriend! Specifically, we go over: The reason getting a woman you’ve only been dating for 2 to 3 months a gift is a HUGE mistake What do to when she gets mad at you for not getting her a gift for her birthday or holiday The type of conversation you need to have with her to make her understand WHY you didn’t get her a gift so she’ll stop being mad at you and look at the situation more objectively Why a woman being mad at you for this is actually a BIG indicator of her interest   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of knowing your partner’s love language as it pertains to getting her the RIGHT Valentine’s Day gift! Specifically, we go over: What each of the 5 love languages are How knowing your partner’s love language will guide you in choosing the right kind of gift to make a HUGE impact on them What you can get for a person who’s love language isn’t receiving gifts – yes, even THEY need to be given something in their “love language” style to feel special   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the POSITIVE impact you will see in your dating life once you become comfortable dumping the WRONG women and/or turning down offers of sex! Specifically, we go over: How a guy’s ego can prevent them from dumping someone The importance of gaining self-confidence Why you shouldn’t force yourself to make something work when it clearly isn’t Why women will want to be with you MORE once they hear you’ve actually been the one to initiate break ups in previous relationships How being able to turn down certain sexual offers will put YOU in control of your dating life   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !