Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s question comes from a guy who has a woman from school he meets up regularly with at the gym. He wants to take her out, but she keeps flaking, despite the flirty signals and gym invitation she gave to him, and wants to know how to move forward with her! Specifically, we talk about:   Why you must NEVER accept a woman’s invitation to be part of her routine early on What a woman is subconsciously thinking when you show up to her requested activity – and why it does NOT bode well for you The importance of seeing her on an actual DATE vs. hanging with her at her regular spot   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you MUST be okay with paying for those first dates with a new woman! Specifically, we go over:   How it is that the woman is actually paying MORE than you are for that first date (and not in the way you think) The importance of planning dates that don’t cost much, yet can still impress Why it’s okay to take a girl out to dinner and pay for it The importance of showing her you care about her by paying for her good time The REAL cost of that first date for her, and where all the money goes   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s questions both have the same theme: guys who texted too much, started to lose the woman’s interest and now want to know how to cut back on their message-sending in an attempt to rebuild her interest! Specifically, we talk about:   Can it be done? Can you scale back on texting once you’ve been established as a serial texter? Why you shouldn’t believe the myth that “texting more attracts them more” Why it’s important for her to EARN the right to hear from you on a more consistent basis   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we have another segment in our series of videos called “A Non Juan Story,” where women tell us stories about men they went out with, and the things they did to cause them to be turned off! Today, we have a girl named Magdalene stop by to tell us all about a guy that wanted to date her, but had too many attitude, wardrobe, and emotional issues to make it happen! Hopefully you guys will be able to use it as an example of something you should NOT be doing on dates! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I interview musician and close friend T. Whistle, a man who is one of the 3% with “Natural” game! We pick his brain and ask him about his secret to making attracting women to him look so easy! Specifically, we go over:   Mistakes he made early in the game, and the importance of NOT ignoring “red flags” The importance of detachment and not being so eager for her to like you How to get your mind into the right place so you won’t talk about depressing stuff on date What to talk about when you can’t think of what to say (Hint: ALL people like talking about this subject) The “Three-Second Rule” and what judgements are being made about you during that time       …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a comment left by a loyal listener on a previous podcast about whether or not a statement I made on that podcast goes against what I’ve preached in various other podcast! Specifically, we talk about:   His issue with me saying it’s okay to talk to dates about exes in while saying it’s NOT okay in many other podcast – and why he’s right to bring it up! Clarification: when it’s okay to bring up your dating experiences at certain times The reason passively mentioning other girls’ attraction towards you (in the past or present) can sway girls that may be undecided about you   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how you can find YOUR dating process so that you treat all girls you’re dating the same (in the beginning)! Specifically, we go over:   Why all girls think they’re “different” from other women – and why they’re really NOT The process I use on every new girl I date during the 1st three months – with success! Why it’s okay to use similar tactics on each girl you date The importance of making her FEEL and BELIEVE that she’s the only person you’ve done certain things with (even if she knows it may not be true) How to add/subtract things from your process to make your dating life the most efficient   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of being respectful of her time! Specifically, we go over:   What a girl is REALLY saying when she accepts your date request, and what she has to go through to prepare for it Why it’s YOUR job to know your schedule BEFORE you ask her out Why she has every right to NOT accept your request to reschedule a date The areas of time being disrespected when you try to change plans last minute Why asking her to “just hang out” is also showing disrespect for her time   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a question from a listener that wants to know how to talk to a girl and figure out where he stands with her! Specifically, we talk about:   Why there’s really no need to have the “Where Do I stand with you” speech The ACTIONS you should be doing to build her interest and make her want to be in a relationship with you Why it’s much more beneficial for HER to come to YOU with the “Where do I stand” speech Signals you should be allowing a girl to show you to better read her interest    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how you can brag to a girl about your successes without coming across like a douche bag! Specifically, we go over:   Why girls will NOT be impressed if you directly talk about your accomplishments The RIGHT way to bring up your successes without it looking like an act of desperation The passive ways you can let a woman know you’re well off, great in bed, blessed with a good job, etc. How NOT mentioning certain things about your impressive life will increase her interest in you even MORE when she finds about about those things for herself    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to comfort a girl when she’s going through a hard time! Specifically, we go over:       A HUGE mistake most guys make when their girlfriend is going through a problem How doing “nothing” is actually doing something The REAL reason a girl dumps you during a tragedy – and it has to do with YOUR “helpful” response to her situation Why she will actually feel CLOSER to you when you simply listen to what she’s saying and “helping” her in the ways requested       …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer FOUR questions today, including:   Should a guy write his ex telling her how he’s changed? How can a guy get better at approaching women in public to ask them out? When is my “Online Dating Course” going to finally come out?? What can a guy do after he’s slipped back into his AFC ways of acting and is causing his girl to lose interest?    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we have a new segment called “A Non Juan Story,” where women tell us stories about men they went out with, and the things they did to cause them to be turned off! Today, we have a girl named Destiny stop by to tell us her dating horror story – hopefully you guys will be able to use it as an example of something you should NOT be doing on dates! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I interview comedian and entertainer Tre Luv, who also happens to be quite the ladies man! We pick his brain and ask him all about the art of the cold approach! Specifically, we go over:   A MAJOR signal a guy should look for from a girl to indicate her interest Why what you wear is so important How words and confidence play a HUGE role in her choosing to talk to you How and why women are willing to over-extend themselves to you voluntarily IF they like you Lines and words used by Tre Luv to get a girl’s number within 15 seconds of meeting her    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! I got a message from a listener who wants to date but not seriously, and is worried about leading women on! He also asks me some other questions, including:   How long have I been a dating expert, and what are my credentials? How is serial dating different from random hook ups? How do you date a girl as a half-decent person without leading her on? How do you pick up the signals early on if a girl is looking for something more serious vs a girl who is just looking for casual dating? Where do you find most of the girls that you end up dating?    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the 5 steps a guy should take to keep a woman interested AFTER the first date! Specifically, we go over:   The “Lather, Rinse & Repeat” dating method Why it’s CRUCIAL for you to NOT do certain things to help you gauge HER interest The importance of not contacting her immediately after the first date How waiting 3 months to make her the girlfriend not only helps you, but MOTIVATES her to think about you two as a couple   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about abundance mentality vs. scarcity mentality, and it’s effect on your dating life! Specifically, we go over:   Why it doesn’t benefit you to believe you only have a choice of ONE girl How a guy ends up with blinders in dating What happens when you allow your ego to become too involved in your dating life Why you should always keep an open mind about being able to find someone else, even if you think you’ve found the girl of your dreams   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! I got an interesting message from a listener who’s having a tough time getting over a girl, and asked me what steps I took to become better with women – so, I answered his question! Specifically, we go over:   The situation I went through with a girl in college that caused me to fail my first senior year – and the HUGE lessons I took from it The 5 steps I did to start becoming better with women The importance of not allowing your ego to dictate how you feel when a woman reacts to you in a certain way (be it positively or negatively) Why having your own life together is VITAL when it comes to your self-confidence and your ability to attract – and keep – women    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the power of not talking so much! Specifically, we go over:   Why you can’t talk to your girl in the same way you talk to your guy friends The reason women are more sensitive to words than guys are Why it’s okay to not answer every question she asks you The importance of monitoring your side comments to her BEFORE they are said The secret guys married for 20+ years have learned about communicating with their wives   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how a guy can help her release her desire to sleep with him without having her feel bad about it later! Specifically, we go over: The importance of helping her create a “plausible excuse” for her “yes” decision Why women do not respond with “yes” to direct pursuits of sex What to talk about during the date that will make her want to “check out” your place later How to make one date feel like 3 or more dates so she’ll become more comfortable with you quicker The ONE thing you should always have at your place – guaranteed to make her be in more of a “yes” mood! ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !