The A To Z Of Sex

This week I talk with SasistriX all about tops and topping. We cover consent, self-care, the difference between topping and being a dominant, different roles in BDSM play, kink and dynamics.

This week I talk with the amazing Qat Wanders about how we get beyond slut shaming. We will talk about all the ways we can reclaim the concept of slut and bust the shame around sexuality.

This week we are talking about pompoir - a method of pelvic floor exercises used to increase sexual response - for you and for your partner.

This episode I am covering opening up - what to consider when opening up your relationship. We will talk about the different forms of non-monogamy and what to consider when moving from monogamy to non-monogamy.

This week we talk about getting rid of shame in relation to female sexuality - and look at casual sex and shame. We will look at common myths around having casual sex - and how women in particular can get past these myths to create sexual relationships that bring them joy.

This week in my series of podcasts on relationship styles, I cover mixed relationships - relationships where one person identifies as monogamous and the other identifies as non-monogamous. These relationships are often difficult to manage but can be extremely rewarding when parties take the time to learn the skills they need to negotiate, communicate and manage their emotions.

In this episode, I talk with Jonathan Kent about jealousy - form, function, utility. We will talk tips to managing jealousy and the difference between jealousy and envy.

Do you have a bucket list relating to sex and relationships? If not, why not? Are there things you fantasise about and want to try? What stops you? This week I will talk about creating and fulfilling your sex and relationship bucket list.

August is anal pleasure month so we are starting this series with a new episode on anal pleasure.

In the final episode of this season, I am answering questions that have come in over the the season, talking about electricity play (and zaps), zipless f**ks, and all the bits and pieces I may have glossed over or not answered.

Do you enjoy watching? Voyeurs enjoy watching sex - in person, on film, they just love the energy of watching. S inQ and I will discuss this topic and the many ways that voyeurs show up in sexual spaces, give some ideas as to how you can watch without intruding or causing yourself problems.

Justin Hancock joins me this week to talk about how underfunding for sex and relationship education impact all of our knowledge about sex and relationships and as a result impact the quality of these relationships. We talk about consent, understanding of sexual development, sex education, and the issues facing parents and teachers.

This week I am all about the senses. I will cover all the senses, how to enjoy sensuality, and the where's and why for's of sensory deprivation.

This week I am joined by the incredible Fran Bushe to talk all about quims in honour of the 13 May release of her new book, My Broken Vagina. We will be busting myths, talking about the care and feeding of the quim. There will be lots of laughter alongside the serious issues raised.

This week I will talk about the value of all forms of adult play. I will cover intimate and sexual play, kink, fetish and BDSM, burlesque and sex positive entertainment. We will look at the different impacts of individual play, play with partners, private parties and public ones. We will talk about the value of virtual, hybrid and live events. Finally I will share some stories from the last virtual play party and the full line up for the 30th May Virtual Play Party and Birthday Party Fundraiser.

It's one year exactly since the publication of my erotic memoir - Dancing the Edge to Surrender: An Erotic Memoir of Trauma and Survival. I look back over the year and the impact of the progression that started with this memoir and a year on has resulted in two more books. I will likely do a reading from the book as well.

This episode we will be discussing nuance in relationships. I will be talking about the importance of nuanced discussions, negotiations and understanding when it comes to relationships, consent, sex, gender and sexuality. Very little is binary in life. Nuance embraces the non-binary nature of our human interactions and especially intimate ones.

I am joined by the author of The Fifth: A Polyamorous Love Story (MP Boisvert) and the translator (Monica Meneghetti) to talk about polyamory, non-monogamy, love and relationship styles. We will talk about the book and about the issues that arise with complex love relationships. The book was critically acclaimed in the original French and is getting lots of positive attention in the English translation.

In this episode, I discuss all things impact play. I will cover the joys of various types of play, implements, safe places to impact, different ways to impact and share some tips and tricks that make integrating impact play into your sex life pleasurable even when you are not into BDSM.

In this episode, I talk all about oral sex - giving head in all it's forms. I cover the history of some of the terms, and what makes magnificent oral for every kind of body part. Oral pleasure is not just foreplay. Kissing is some of the best oral sex there is and talking dirty... well that can be immensely exciting.