Stop Losing Women Podcast

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you shouldn’t try starting new relationships during the holiday season! Specifically, we go over: Why a new girl may not give you as much attention this time of year that she normally would during the rest of the year How guys’ constant pestering for her to hang out with him during this time of year can cause her to lose interest How to avoid the feelings of frustration and/or doing needy actions most guys’ feel when they’re not getting the right-away responses from girls on holiday vacation (hint: PATIENCE, guys!) 7 Reasons why it’s a horrible idea to start a relationship this time of year – and why yoyu have a better shot at making it work AFTER New Year’s   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of being a gentleman when taking a woman out on a date! Specifically, we go over: How and why women will be shocked – SHOCKED – when you act like a gentleman on a date How to appear as a confident gentleman vs. a wimpy nice guy – and yes, she WILL go out with a confident gentleman Various gentlemanly actions you can do on dates that will impress her and keep her wanting you   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we open up the Stop Losing Women mailbag and answer a reader’s question about how to handle a woman who says she wants to take it slow! Specifically, we go over: Why a woman who genuinely likes you would say this statement in the first place Is her wanting to take it slow a rejection of you? How trying to convince her to move faster will make her move faster… at getting rid of you! The BEST way to react to this statement that will cause a girl to become more comfortable with you… and usually results in HER trying to push things faster with YOU!   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should stop ignoring when a woman shows you signals indicating she’d be a BAD choice, i.e. “red flags!” Specifically, we go over: What “red flags” are, and what they indicate when a woman shows them Why it’s important not to think you can “change” a woman who shows you these negative signals 10 examples of “red flags” the WRONG woman will show you, and why it’s important to know what they are   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of not being so messy! Specifically, we go over: The perception of you women have when you are an unkempt man with an unkempt wardrobe, car, and place to live Things you should do to keep your overall life appearance clean Why it pays to have your car/place/etc. clean, even if you don’t think girls will be in those areas when you take her out on a date   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

Episode #100, yaaaaaaay!!! In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of not bailing out when the relationship gets hard! Specifically, we go over:   The reason problems will arise, even between two people who love each other The difference between “red flags” and “small relationship hiccups that can be solved” How sticking around and resolving conflicts can score you BIG points in her book   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should stop watching porn! Specifically, we go over: The effect porn can have on your expectations from the opposite sex The effect porn can have on your stamina in the bedroom The effect porn can have on being able to relate to women in the real world The effect having “fun time” with yourself consistently can have on your ability to bond with women   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer a letter from a listener who took a girl on a date, followed the stuff he learned from the podcast, and got the girl to ask HIM for another date! Specifically, we go over: Why not talking “future speak” forces her to bring up the idea of more dates What to do when the girl is showing interest in seeing you again – how soon do you see her? Do you set up something right away or do you make her wait, and if so for how long? How to respond when a girl texts you after a date – is it even okay to respond in the first place?   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I answer a guy’s message about over-texting a girl and calling her to ask her out! In addition, I issue a challenge to ALL guys out there who are constantly texting women (and occasionally argue with me about my “Texting KILLS relationships” mantra). The challenge? To see if you can go ONE week without texting a girl, and see what results you get? Think you can handle the challenge? If so, write to me and let me know (a) that you’re participating, and (b) what your results are in 7 days! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why there’s no need to fear that a girl you’ve met and made a good impression on will forget you! Specifically, we go over: How having the fear of her forgetting you causes you to make CRITICAL mistakes in your dating game Why a woman can not forget about you if you’ve made a GREAT first impression The only reasons a woman would forget about having talked to you in the first place …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why it’s bad to believe having sex with a woman will automatically make her want to get in a relationship with you! Specifically, we go over: The frustration most guys show on dating message boards when they have sex with a girl and she STILL wants to leave them Why sex is a horrible foundation to build a relationship on The advantages of delaying sex   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why it’s actually a BAD idea to avoid feelings of hurt when a girl leaves you! Specifically, we go over: How jumping into a new situation immediately after a break up can make the new relationship work out The main reason guys try to act like they’re not hurt when a girl leaves them The advantages of giving yourself a specific time limit to grieve or be upset about a break up, and how it can benefit you for future relationships   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should stop defending yourself when a woman makes silly accusations against you! Specifically, we go over: How defending yourself can actually dig you into a deeper hole How NOT defending yourself can cause her to take a second look at you… in a positive way 5 accusations girls may throw at you, and how to “not” defend them   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we read some letters and messages from loyal podcast listeners! Specifically, we: Read a comment from a loyal listener of the podcast who went against what he learned and did a big “no-no” on a date with a girl Read an email from a listener who’s used advice from the podcast to get closer to a girl he thought he didn’t have a chance with Answer a listener’s question about what possessed me to take a girl to see “Passion of the Christ” on a first date   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you need to stop hating on “Bad Boys” if you want to get anywhere with women! Specifically, we go over: The reasons women fall for “Bad Boys” – and it’s not the reasons you think What Bad Boys do right that turn girls on – and how YOU can add them to your dating routine 7 POSITIVE characteristics Bad Boys have that Nice Guys don’t   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should do all you can to avoid asking her only safe questions on dates! Specifically, we go over: The impression you give when you ask her the same questions every other guy has asked her on dates Why you shouldn’t be afraid to rock the boat when coming up with questions to ask her Resources and/or games you can suggest to her that will give you a safe avenue to ask her “dangerous” questions   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I answer a bunch of survey questions about myself left by someone on a dating forum! Specifically, I talk about: The best/worst advice I ever received about dating How I handle myself during times when I have no women to date My “shining moment,” or the moment I knew I had this dating thing down to a science   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you shouldn’t be offended when a woman wants to talk to you about a decision you’re trying to make! Specifically, we go over: An important lesson I learned from one of my previous exes about why talking with women about decisions is important – even if you think you’ve already made your mind up Why it’s not such a bad idea to get an outsider’s opinion about what you’re planning to do 5 reasons women want to talk to you about your decision – and it has nothing to do with them trying to change your mind   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk how necessary it is to NOT show attraction in the ways that women do! Specifically, we go over: The myth that tapping into your feminine side will help women respond to you better (it won’t) Why it’s important, even in the 21st century, to allow both sexes to display the traits nature has given to them when trying to attract the other sex 7 things you should NOT be doing to attract her, i.e. actions that should be reserved for HER to show YOU, not the other way around   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why need to know when to stop pushing a girl to talk about or do things she’s not wanting to do! Specifically, we go over: The myth that talking to her about previous pain in her life will make her bond with you faster The myth that forcing her to face one of her fears or do something she’s not comfortable with will increase her interest Topics you should never force a girl to talk about when going on those first dates   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !