Married Millennials

Justin and Joy break down why most young men are triflin’ and how to react if your partner expresses their disappointment with your sex game. Elevator Pitch So…we lied and went HAM on Cyber Monday. Still looking for the perfect gift? Look no further than Justin’s online credit card course! Generational wealth is real…and we ain’t got it. Joy’s mini-golf meltdown and Justin’s horrific batting display. T-Pain broke the internet with this confession. Most men, if not all, have a little triflin’ in them. Justin included. How would you respond if your partner explained they don’t enjoy having sex with you? And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 87 Preview

Justin and Joy discuss who they’re thankful for this holiday season and how teamwork has anchored their relationship and marriage. Elevator Pitch Our 1st vegan Thanksgiving was a success! The people and experiences we are thankful for this season. How therapy gave Justin the release he didn’t know he needed. Joy’s over-the-top Christmas decorations. Why teamwork is at the center of our marriage. The power of apology. And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 86 Preview

Justin and Joy share their sentiments on holiday potlucks and discuss finding their marriage groove. Elevator Pitch Don’t let Black Friday ruin your holiday. Joy’s emotional battle with the holiday season. Justin’s disdain for potlucks. Greedy asses making to-go plates before everyone else eats. Negatively enforcing your will upon your spouse. Learning how to date within in your marriage. And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 85 Preview

Justin and Joy discuss how male privilege leads to rape culture and the responsibility men have in creating a safe space for women. Elevator Pitch Joy’s vivid dreams. Our dogs' ludicrous behavior during the night. The Bruno Mars concert was LIT! Brunch 2 Bomb with another DOPE event. Who made grindin’ in the club an accepted social norm? Men’s role in perpetuating rape culture. 3 actions men can take NOW to create change. And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 84 Preview

Justin and Joy discuss the tragedy in San Antonio and reflect on living a purposeful life. Elevator Pitch It finally feels like Fall! Interested in joining Joy for NaNoWriMo? Brunch 2 Bomb is back! Get your tickets. The sad and tragic shooting in Sutherland Springs. Creating positivity amongst the negativity. Setting boundaries to assist with self-care and healing. And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 83 Preview

Justin and Joy recap the importance of mental health and discuss Joy’s experience with a spiritual medium. Elevator Pitch Happy Halloween! Would you rather sit courtside or in a suite at an NBA game? Ready for your next vacation? Enroll in Justin’s credit card course for tips and tricks. Mental health awareness recap and the benefits of meditation. Joy’s visit with a medium. The conflict between religion and spirituality. And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 82 Preview

Justin and Joy sit down with Nathan Cheney to discuss how growing up without a father has impacted every aspect of his life, overcoming his battle with suicide and depression, and the lessons he learned by facing his past. Elevator Pitch Nathan’s motivation behind his upcoming documentary, A Fatherless Generation. Overcoming his 10-year battle with suicide and depression. How interviewing 100+ people for the film helped him define “fatherless”. Nathan’s biggest lesson he learned about himself throughout this journey. The impact growing up fatherless has had on his dating life. Fish Bowl: Are you holding onto something you need to let go of? How many friends would trust with your life? Is there something you wish you didn't know? And much more! More About Nathan Nathan Cheney was born and raised in Southeast, Kansas. Cheney received his Bachelors in Cinema and Television production from Columbia College Hollywood. A Fatherless Generation marks Nathan Cheney’s debut as a feature film Directo

Justin and Joy premiere their first online e-course and discuss the complex world of infidelity. Elevator Pitch The DOPEST brunch party in Los Angeles. Joy’s 10-year high school reunion. Justin’s credit card course is OFFICIALLY HERE! Esther Perel’s brilliant interview about infidelity. The importance of having difficult conversations throughout your marriage. Our key advice for couples about to enter marriage. And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 80 Preview

Justin and Joy sit down with Allycin Hicks to discuss the negative stigmas surrounding therapy, the importance of genuine personal relationships, and how her psychology background effects her marriage. Elevator Pitch Debunking the negative stigmas associated with therapy. Religion’s impact on people’s perception of therapy. Allycin’s journey in becoming a mental health expert. Cognitive-Behavioral therapy vs. Dialectal Behavior therapy. EMDR therapy and its benefits for trauma patients. The importance of breath and how it ties you to the present. The struggle of maintaining mindfulness while working in a traumatic field. How Allycin is using her psychology background as a creative consultant. Fish Bowl: What worries you most about the future? What have you gained from your current job? Who have you hurt the most and have you apologized? And much more! More About Allycin Dr. Ally is a Creative Consultant and Entertainment Mental Health Expert based in Los Angeles, CA. She earned her Ph

Joy gives an intimate look into her experience with anxiety and depression, including tips on maintaining your mental health. Elevator Pitch Why haven’t you signed up for our newsletter? Our recent Blavity interview about balancing our relationship as husband and wife and business partners. In honor of Mental Health Awareness Week, Joy opens up about her battle with mental health disorders. Suffering her first panic attack at 14 years old. Experiencing anxiety and depression throughout college. Seeking professional help at the age of 22. The importance of identifying your triggers. Justin learning to be a supportive partner. And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episo

Justin and Joy discuss forty-five’s poor leadership and the outcry regarding the national anthem protest. Elevator Pitch It’s officially Joy’s favorite season – Fall! Justin’s often, yet poor, conflict resolution skills. Black men vs. therapy: I accept the challenge. The Solange concert and partying on a Compton farm. Forty-five’s SOB comment. National anthem protest and boycotting the NFL. And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 77 Preview

Justin and Joy discuss our generation’s rebellion against tradition, doing sh*t for the ‘gram, and Kevin Hart’s recent infidelity claims. Elevator Pitch Lena Waithe’s historic Emmy win for outstanding writing in a comedy series. Joy still owns, wears, and can fit clothes from the 8th grade, Kevin Hart’s apology to his wife and family regarding his “wrong behavior”. Love does not equal fidelity. Our generation’s rebellion against tradition. Joy admitting to snooping through Justin’s phone. And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 76 Preview

Justin and Joy give a complete breakdown of HBO’s hit series, Insecure. Elevator Pitch How Justin failed to properly celebrate Joy’s birthday. Justin’s brother got engaged! HBO’s hit series, Insecure, in review. Team Issa or Team Lawrence? Online dating and learning how to “ho”. An unexpected facial. Open marriages, explained by Molly and Dro. Bringing a new woman around your mutual friends and ex. And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 75 Preview

Justin and Joy sit down with Leslie Antonoff to discuss her experience as a young mother, Issa Rae's influence on her career, and the importance of persistence. Elevator Pitch Leslie’s unsuccessful attempt at getting hired after applying to 200 jobs. Her friendship with Issa Rae and the creation of “Let Leslie Tell It” The inspiration behind Haute Mommie. Becoming a mother as a 23-year-old college senior. Leslie’s upcoming Butter + Brown culinary series on Aspire TV. The benefits of being married and the importance of telling people marriage is fun. Fish Bowl: What stands between you and complete happiness? Who have you hurt the most and have you apologized? What’s your biggest regret? And much more! More About Leslie Leslie Antonoff is a triple-threat; writer, television host, and entrepreneur, she is setting the world on fire with her gift of gab, wit, and business acumen. An alumna of Howard University, Leslie prides herself on representing Black people with an unrelenting fierceness c

Justin and Joy discuss the challenge of separating artistry from the artist and society's entitlement to a woman's body.

Justin and Joy celebrate their two-year wedding anniversary and share three lessons they learned in their second year of marriage. Elevator Pitch Today is our two-year wedding anniversary! Joy’s extreme comfort with talking about death. Organizing our closet with these gems from IKEA. Justin rationalizing the size of his shoe collection. Three themes we learned in our 2nd year of marriage: 1. Welcome to reality 2. Sexual Expectations 3. Future Planning And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 72 Preview

Justin and Joy relive partying with Beyoncé and Jay-Z and dissect white fragility following the events in Charlottesville. Elevator Pitch Partying with Beyoncé and Jay-Z. Uncle duties wore Justin out after three days…smh. Justin’s poor ability to properly take care of himself. Charlottesville, Virginia: A hoodless klan rally. You MUST identify and name behavior in order to change it. The best social commentary on Charlottesville. And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 71 Preview

Justin and Joy sit down with Nate Howard to discuss how his experience with the LAPD shaped his career path, becoming a full-time entrepreneur, and influencing education with his non-profit organization. Elevator Pitch Nate’s USC graduation aggressively ending with 79 LAPD officers. Nate’s early introduction to poetry and how it influenced the creation of his slogan “Tell Your Story Before They Do.” The evolution of his non-profit, Movement Be, from music to education. Transitioning from the corporate world to a full-time entrepreneur. How he met his girlfriend and her influence on his commitment to his dreams. Nate’s goals for the next five years. Fish Bowl: What worries you most about the future? What do you regret most in life? Other than money, what else have you gained from your current job? And much more! More About Nate Nate Howard is a professional speaker, poet, educator, and social entrepreneur based in San Diego, California. In May 2013, Nate made the front page of the LA Times

Justin and Joy discuss sexual compatibility, the negative effects of taboo subjects, and using “female” to describe a woman. Elevator Pitch When watching music videos was the thing to do. Joy’s wisdom teeth removal and HARSH breath. The downside of seeing movies after all the hype. Esther Perel’s series on Audible and view on sexual compatibility. Who is the gatekeeper for sex? Why taboo subjects aren’t beneficial to growth. Is it acceptable to call women females? And much more! Spread the Word If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review on iTunes and share it with your friends! Connect with us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to share your thoughts about the show. Love Jays Newsletter Have you signed up for our newsletter? Join the hundreds who've already subscribed to the best newsletter on the internet! Episode 69 Preview Check Out Our Latest Episode With Blavity!

Justin and Joy sit down with Emmy-award-winning writer and creator of Showtime's "The Chi", Lena Waithe, to discuss her recent Emmy nomination, relationship with a Hollywood executive, and the importance of having television content reflective of black culture.