Flora-

Dear Little One,亲爱的女儿，Recently, your mother and I were searching the Internet, and Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top was "How to keep him interested".最近，妈妈和我在上网时，收到谷歌推送的一份网络热门搜索清单，置顶的热搜是“如何让他对你感兴趣”。It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior.我被这个问题吓一跳，于是在无数条回答这个问题的文章中选择了几篇浏览，这些文章都是关于如何让自己变得更性感、何时递给他一瓶啤酒和三明治，以及如何让他感觉自己聪明而优越，诸如此类的方法。And I got angry.我生气了。Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to "keep him interested".孩子，“让他对你感兴趣”这件事，现在不是、过去不曾是、且以后永远也不会是你的责任或义务。Little One, your only task is to know deeply in your soul—in that unshakable place that isn’t rattled by rejection and loss and ego—that you are worthy of interest. 孩子，你唯一要做的是：在灵魂深处——在那坚定不移、不因拒绝和失去以及自我而慌乱的地方——告诉自己，你值得。If you can remember that everyone else is worthy of interest also, the battle of your life will be mostly won.