A Gay And A Nongay

What do Dan and James think of couples who call their partner "This One" on social media? We've a huge announcement about our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks and the latest on homophobic protests outside a school in Birmingham. Plus NonGay Eye's back and our listener Mason wants to know if he's missing out on the fun of his 20s whilst being in a gay relationship?  We've taken loads of your wonderful messages to our favourite advice podcast! Listen to our brand new series with Radio 1's Life Hacks podcast via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0738blz.  We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

How NonGay is Dan? James puts him through a vigorous Kinsey Scale test - plus we remember Queer As Folk and the boys discuss the UK Government’s new LGBT Education action plan -- We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan’s fed up of people asking him questions and James introduces Dan to gay twitter’s most iconic new meme - the Cock Destroyers. -- We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan and James talk about Manchester Pride's decision to add black and brown to the rainbow flag. And what does "technically single" mean? --- We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James has done the maths on how many guys he's slept with and so has his mum! Dan has no idea who Timothée Chalamet is and Talia needs to press 15s repeatedly. We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan has a big night out with his friends, and it's the most NonGay thing you've ever heard... or is it? We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James & Dan have a huge announcement, and with Boy Erased opening in cinemas in the UK soon the boys discuss gay conversion therapy with star and director Joel Edgerton. We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Find out more about The Trevor Project's 50 Bills 50 States, or the podcast UnErased to understand more about conversion therapy in the US. Check out The Rainbow Project in Northern Ireland, promoting the health and wellbeing of LGBT+ people and their families. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (s

Fabulous means Fabulous and James uses the podcast as a sensible (!) way to communicate with someone romantic. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James is back from a holiday to Miami with some new vocabulary, a new use for twitter and shocks Dan with an upsetting story. For support and information about HIV we recommend Terrence Higgins Trust in the UK and in the US Greater Than Aids. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan's world is thrown into confusion when a new moneymaking opportunity presents itself and James is cute to Dan. Swoon. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#20GAYTEEN is over! Happy 20-bi-teen! This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan’s had enough of James’ ‘meltdowns’ for one year, so he’s complied a Best Of full of his fave 2018 moments! Expect admin, your mum jokes and some pretty shocking cow biology. Plus more serious stuff including an interview with the amazing Juno Dawson from our special episode A Gay and A NonGay and A Trans, and highlights from our 100th Episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival.  This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from A Gay & A NonGay where we're delighted to welcome Santa back down our chimney to spill the tea on his wishes for Christmas 2018. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You scumbag you maggot you cheap lousy f*****... is Fairytale of New York homophobic? Are radio and TV stations that play it uncensored in twenty-Gay-teen, implicitly homophobic? James & Dan have a new version, and the only thing offensive is their singing. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Back together after the #RedRun, Dan shares his top tips on how to get over someone and is all this 'depression stuff' James talks about just 'podcast content'? Please remember to get regularly tested at your local sexual health clinic - find out more at ASHA or the NHS or your local clinic. Plus we finally have MERCH! Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop! This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support for those living with HIV and to remember those who have died from the infection. Join Dan & James as they meet our listener Christian who got in touch after PrEPisode to tell us what it's like to live in London as a HIV+ man in 2018. They then travel to London's Noël Coward Theatre to meet with actor John Benjamin Hickey who is currently starring in the essential must watch play The Inheritance - that explores the generation after the peak of the AIDS crisis, plus journalist Matt Cain joins us to talk about the stigma of life on PrEP and his trip to Russia to investigate how homophobia fuels Russia's HIV epidemic.   Please don't take anything said in this episode as medical advice or absolute fact. For more information about HIV/AIDS please talk to your d

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support for those living with HIV and to remember those who have died from the infection. Join Dan & James as they meet our listener Christian who got in touch after PrEPisode to tell us what it's like to live in London as a HIV+ man in 2018. They then travel to London's Noël Coward Theatre to meet with actor John Benjamin Hickey who is currently starring in the essential must watch play The Inheritance - that explores the generation after the peak of the AIDS crisis, plus journalist Matt Cain joins us to talk about the stigma of life on PrEP and his trip to Russia to investigate how homophobia fuels Russia's HIV epidemic.   Please don't take anything said in this episode as medical advice or absolute fact. For more information about HIV/AIDS please talk to your d

It's a tale of two nights out involving semi-clothed men when James & Dan have both have a very triggering experience in each other’s worlds. Is WWE and hitting people for 'entertainment' just another display of toxic masculinity? And is all male BOYLESQUE basically just porn? And if you want to impress Dan, don’t get your dick out. Order pizza. 25 of them. Support the boys in this weekend's 10K #RedRun in aid of Positive East on Worlds Aids Day. If you're in London, get tickets for Briefs Close Encounters at Christmas. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How easy is it keeping your friends if you talk about them on your podcast, never mind any new love interest? TLDR - James is no longer dating. Podcasters anonymous - tell us your woes: us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James shares some upsetting but unsurprising news from Stonewall on LGBT mental health in the UK but Dan’s friend seems a bit bored of us discussing James’ depression on the pod. There's also some admin and both A Gay and A NonGay clearly know absolutely nothing about vaginas. Read the full LGBT in Health Report online. - A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices