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Subspace is just one experience submissives can have during a kink scene. As we’ve discussed before, subspace isn’t a guarantee for every scene, and some people may never even get there. So let’s talk... The post Minisode 55: Beyond Subspace appeared first on Loving BDSM.

We’re back with another response (reaction?) to questions asked over on the BDSM side of Reddit. In this episode: This week’s episode is sponsored by Beducated. Answering questions on BDSM reddit. Thanks to our... The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re sharing the audio version of a video we made recently on a few things to remember about consent in your power exchange relationship. Most (all?) of it will be familiar because... The post Minisode 54: Consent in Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

We love a good process that we can (mostly) repeat over and over again. Yes, even in kink and for new kinky fuckery. This week, we’re sharing what we do when we’re ready to... The post Minisode 53: Trying New Kinks Together appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week we asked for your kinky questions over on Instagram (at that handle I will forever fucking hate) and in the live chat on YouTube while we recorded. In this episode: This week’s... The post BDSM Q&A appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Too many kinksters chase subspace and then feel disappointed after their scene. Not because it didn’t go well but because they didn’t undergo a bio-chemical reaction that they had absolutely no control over. So... The post Minisode 52: Subspace appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re going back in the archive to episode 6 where we talked about how we made the switch to DD/lg (Daddy Dom/little girl). This time, we’re asking ourselves – is that who... The post Are We Still DD/lg? | Revisiting Old Episodes appeared first on Loving BDSM.

New to the idea of electroplay? Like all other kinks, you need to learn about it before you try it – especially the risks. Here are a few things to keep in mind as... The post Minisode 51: Electroplay Basics and Safety Tips appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Towards the end of 2021, we both admitted to each other we were starting to feel burnt out – in our power exchange! While our relationship wasn’t the source of the burnout, it could... The post Burnout in Power Exchange and Kink appeared first on Loving BDSM.

For the big 5-0, we decided to talk about one of our favorite things in kink – impact play. Specifically, we’re sharing different types of toys we absolutely love to use for impact play!... The post Minisode 50: Our Favorite Impact Play Toys appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re talking about our experience during Kayla’s recovery from surgery – a time when she wasn’t able to be her service submissive self in her usual way. We share how we both... The post When a Service Submissive Can’t Serve appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Too many people still ask, “Can you have a power exchange relationship and be a parent?” To that, we say, “YES!” As with all things parenting, compromises have to be made, but in our... The post Minisode 49: Tips for Balancing Kink and Parenting appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we celebrate a major podcasting milestone – 300 episodes of our Friday conversations. So this week we’re reflecting on what we’ve learned – about BDSM, about talking about BDSM, and about ourselves.... The post What We’ve Learned After 300 Kinky Conversations appeared first on Loving BDSM.

JB is a sadist and Kayla is a masochist, and it’s something we talk about in a lot of contexts. In this week’s mini episode, we’re sharing a few things we want people to... The post Minisode 48: Sadism and Masochism appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Not only is this episode filled with Kayla Rants™, there’s also the rare sighting of a JB Rant™! In this episode: The Patreon Membership Drive continues through February 15 Thanks to silentwinged for sending... The post BDSM Reddit Reaction appeared first on Loving BDSM.

We’ve talked about red flags that Doms show and red flags from submissives, but what about red flags in power exchange, regardless of the role? This week, we share a few that we tend... The post Minisode 47: Red Flags in Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re taking a look at two newish-to-us terms – hard dom and soft dom. What do they mean and what do we think about them as terms? In this episode: The Patreon... The post Hard Doms vs Soft Doms appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Forced orgasms are our jam around here, and we love a good vibrator to help us both out. In this minisode we share a few of our favorite toys and why they’re our favorites.... The post Minisode 46: Our Favorite Vibrators for Forced Orgasms appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re re-visiting episode five from the archives. In that episode, Kayla answered common submissive questions regarding bad behavior that all seemed to end in, “Is this okay?” and “Is this normal?” This... The post Questioning Whether Bad Kinky Behavior is “Normal” | Revisiting Episode 5 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

All BDSM carries risk. Some is a little, some is a lot. And it’s easy to ignore the risks when you’re focused on fulfilling a fantasy, finally experiencing a power exchange, or exploring new... The post Minisode 45: BDSM Safety Tips appeared first on Loving BDSM.